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If you see any of these signs that he wants you to be his girlfriend, then be confident that he is serious about a relationship with you. If a woman has dated a man for a while and reached a point where she’s developed some feelings for him, she can’t help but wonder if there are signs that he wants you to be his girlfriend. After all, it’s just one of two things when it comes to men. Either he’s keeping you for the long run or you’ll just be a name on his list of conquests. [Read: All the clues a guy is just playing you ] The signs that he wants you to be his girlfriend The need for certainty is understandable especially if you haven’t had the “talk.” So how does a girl confirm her suspicions and know for sure he’s playing for keeps? Luckily, men have a tendency to display a predictable set of behaviors once he decides that he wants you to be his girlfriend. If you observe any of these signs, rest assured he definitely does want you. #1 He’s left the online dating scene since mee...

You may be seriously head over heels for her, but she’s not fully committing to you. What are the signs she’s using you emotionally? Are you someone who will be open and vulnerable and take a risk on your love? First, you need to figure out if the girl you’re with shows the signs she’s using you emotionally. First of all, love isn’t easy. When we do find it, it gets even harder. Now, this doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t fall in love—you should! It’s one of the best feelings you’ll experience. But you want to make sure that you’re giving your heart to someone who actually wants to cherish it. I know, I sound like I’m 90 years old, but I’m speaking the truth here! This isn’t to say all women are going to string you along, but there are many that will. Is this because they’re evil? No. This is simply because they’re scared of getting hurt. [Read: Is she an attention whore who’s using you? ] The 11 must-know signs she’s using you emotionally Women aren’t stupid. We see how many men ha...

Ghosting was not always so popular, but it seems as soon as the idea of being a gentleman was gone so was dating etiquette. So why do guys ghost? Ghosting is pretty much the act of ceasing all communication with someone out of the blue, mostly in the world of dating or virtual dating. So the big question is… Why do guys ghost? Did he meet someone else? Did he get bored? Is it forgetfulness, did they lose your number, or are they just a coward?  Yes, sometimes this is totally innocent and two people just lose touch. But more often than not, ghosting is the act, and guys are the culprit. What ghosting feels like The reason why guys ghost is so important because it leaves a lasting effect on the person ghosted. It is not the same as a breakup or fight. It is an open ended lingering feeling that leads to tons of self doubt. Without closure or even the smallest goodbye or explanation the girl is left with no reason for why this guy stopped talking to her. And it leaves you without ...

Should you listen to your gut? Second guessing ourselves seems to be built into our DNA. But when your gut is telling you something, you should listen. It is human nature to overthink things. We all do it. Should we have said something else? Should we not have said anything? We constantly replay things over and over in our heads. We also fret about what’s to come in the future. But more often than not, our first thought was the best one. It’s time to listen to your gut. Believe in you! What does listen to your gut even mean? Think about it. When you are nervous or hesitant about something you get butterflies in your stomach. As some would call it, a nervous stomach. When something feels wrong, your gut has a way of telling you. And when you feel calm and comfortable, your gut makes you feel okay. And no, it may not be your literal gut. It is a mixture of your brain, your mind, your heart, and your subconscious. Things you may not even actively think about or consider when making a ...

Whether you are starting a relationship or just trying to get to know a friend better, knowing how men bond with a woman will help you in the process. Aside from friendships, knowing how men bond with a woman is important in forming romantic relationships. Sure, you can have a relationship with another human being without forming this tight-knit bond, but I assure you, relationships with strong bonds always last longer and are incredibly more successful. Trust me, you want to learn the tricks and tips on how men bond with a woman, because they are seriously going to help you in the long run. I’m sure you’ve seen or maybe even been part of a friendship between a man and a woman, and they just have this deep and strong connection that you’ve never seen before. It is the coolest thing to me, to see a man and a woman just vibe, and not in a romantic way at all—just a platonic way. How amazing is that? Some men bond with women so well, and it is incredible. [Read: Obvious gender differenc...

You may see your BFF every day, but do you actually know them as well as you think? Here are the best personal questions to ask your best friend. Sometimes even when we spend a lot of time together we don’t know the deeper side of our very best friend. There are tons of things you probably want to know about them and vice versa. So whether you are hanging out late at night or sick of scrolling through social media while lounging on the sofa, here are some personal questions to ask your best friend. [Read: How to create lasting memories with your best friend ] The best personal questions to ask your best friend Best friends can be a lot of things. They can be someone you see everyday. They can be someone you have the most fun with, someone you go shopping with, someone you vent to. #1 What was your childhood like? Someone’s childhood may seem like long forgotten memories, but that can be a time that truly molds someone. You could learn why your best friend does certain things, goes...

Every now and then our partners can get a little bossy, but how do you know when it crosses the line? Maybe you wonder if you have a controlling wife. Sounds easy from afar. It always changes when you’re the one in the relationship. Sometimes, if you’re not communicative with your partner, they’ll take over and assume your feelings which never works out well. This is when they start to become controlling. You may not notice it in the beginning and you may find it nice that they do everything, but then one day you’ll wake up and see that you actually have no say. Welcome to the world of having a controlling wife. Of course, it can be with men as well, but we’re going to focus on women in this article. So, buckle up! [Read: Can you have a happy relationship with a controlling woman? ] Do you have a controlling wife? The signs to keep an eye on If someone tells you being in a relationship is easy, well, they’ve obviously never been in a real relationship. Being with another person is...

It’s the Insta era. Somehow that means the answer to knowing how to get a guy’s attention on Instagram is to get naked. But listen, there are other ways. Yes, yes, yes. I am fully aware of the frustration of Instagram “likes” and learning how to get a guy’s attention on Instagram can be freaking exhausting. It is just so crowded with girls just like you trying to do the same thing. Since I’m a blogger, and a Public Relations graduate, Instagram is sort of my thing. I’ve done so much research on how to get more likes, more followers, more engagement, etc. It is seriously exhausting. Girls post a photo of their avocado toast with no filter, and they can post it whenever they want to post it, and they get 300 likes. Me? I filter my photo to match my Instagram theme, post it at the exact time that my followers are online based on my analytics, tag accounts in the photo, geotag the photo, use relevant hashtags, etc., etc., etc. You know what I get? Oh, I don’t know, 50 likes? It is so, so...

We’ve all sat across from our partner and thought, what is a normal relationship supposed to be like? Are we in a normal relationship? But now you’re here, so, you’ve finally caught on to things. If you ask yourself, what is a normal relationship supposed to be like, it’s time you found out. Ignore the TV shows, ignore your family and friends’ relationships, because now it’s time to focus just on you and your relationship. Once you evaluate whether or not your relationship is healthy, it’s then time to do something about it. But let’s not jump ahead. For now, you just need to figure out if this relationship is something you should be in or not. What is a normal relationship supposed to be like? After growing up watching reality TV and romantic comedies, it affects your perception of what’s normal. If you also have parents who argued or are divorced, you may not have had the chance to witness a healthy relationship. [Read: Understanding the vital components to what makes a good rela...

It is so easy to feel stressed and overcome with anxiety in today’s world, so learning how to be a free spirit seems like the only way to function. Okay, so you’re probably thinking “Brett, what the heck is a free-spirit?!”, and you would be totally valid in thinking so. This term has been thrown around a lot recently, I won’t lie to you. But luckily for you, I’m going to dawn some light on this situation by explaining how to be a free spirit. What is a free spirit? A free spirit is someone who goes with the flow of life. This type of individual is usually fully comfortable with themselves. They accept everything for what they are and go on with their day. Usually, they are very positive. Free spirited people do whatever makes them happy, are content, & keep their cool better than most. Most of these people see things differently *urban dictionary*. [Read: Books to read if you want to reinvent your life ] Make sense? In order to learn how to be a free spirit, you must first lea...

What is a social introvert? Sounds like an oxymoron, right? How can you be social, yet an introvert at the same time? It exists. You may even be one! Okay, I know you’re probably curious about what is a social introvert, so I’m not going to waste any more of your time. But rather than telling you straight up what a social introvert is, I’m going to give you some examples. Maybe you can identify with them… or maybe not. [Read: How to recognize the 4 types of introverts ] What is a social introvert? 12 ways to find out for yourself I would like to say that I’m a fairly social person. In fact, most people, when they meet me would call me an extrovert. I’m pretty loud, I like attention and a good party. But that’s only a small section of my life which may happen once or twice a week. For the rest of the time, I’m tucked away in my room or walking by myself. When you see me in those moments, you’d probably call me an introvert. But I can’t be both, right? We have  to be one or the o...