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Most of us don’t take the time to think about the little things. You know, the things to know about sex, like the awkward moments that are pretty normal. In sex ed when I was in school, we learned the basics. But when it comes to actual things to know about sex, you realize how little you actually know. This isn’t your fault! Since you’re reading this, you’re curious about sex—which is even better! How else will you become better at it if you’re not curious to learn more about it? So, it’s time to put your textbook down because that’s not where you’re going to learn the real things to know about sex. You know, the things you’re too scared to ask someone, so you Google them. Those things. [Read: Too shy? These are the sex questions we are too embarrassed to ask ] Important things to know about sex The problem with Hollywood is that they make sex look like everyone’s floating on cloud nine. They move so elegantly, everything is perfectly in place, and of course, no one has any hair....

Having a guy ignore you makes you feel like crap. But learning how to ignore a guy that ignores you can help you gain back your confidence. I’m not sure if it is something about wanting what you can’t have or if it is just something we can’t help, but it can be hard to ignore a guy that ignores you. We deserve a guy who gives us his attention and enjoys talking to us, not one that ignores us. We have all been there. Whether it is full on ghosting, or a guy who only texts you when he needs or wants something, it sucks. But yet, we go along with it. Wouldn’t it be so much easier if we just know how to ignore a guy that ignores you, and get on with your life? But, when you like someone, it can be hard to play the game. You like a guy and are bummed he is ignoring you. So as soon as you get that text back, you want to have a conversation. I get it. [Read: 20 sure reasons a guy could be ignoring you ] Why is it so hard to ignore a guy that ignores you? Before we get into the how, how a...

Not all relationships are alike. For some, the attraction lasts forever. For others, the attraction fades. Are you experiencing the loss of attraction? As relationships continue, the attraction at some point will fade. For some, the attraction will last years and years before fading. For others, it’ll be sooner than expected. We get into our routines and things feel stagnant. This feeling of stagnation is what leads to a loss of attraction. Of course, we would all like our relationships to feel like the very first time we met our partner. Where we feel butterflies and can’t keep our hands off each other. This is a high level of attraction, and it’s what makes us want to continue seeing the person. [Read: The signs you’re experiencing lust and not love ] The signs you have a loss of attraction for your partner You may be asking yourself why ? Well, as you grow as a person and an individual, your relationship keeps going strong. This is because you’re learning and experiencing new th...

Some men are just born with the gentleman gene, but it is not always like that. You can indeed learn how to be a gentleman over time. Feminism may be on the rise as women are fighting equality in all walks of life, but that doesn’t mean we don’t still appreciate the traditional values of an old-fashioned gentleman. Learning how to be a gentleman and charm her will serve you well. Having a man hold the door open for you, pull out your chair, and even walk around to the other side of the car to help you out are not merely kind gestures. These are small moments that show the lengths that a man is willing to go for you. What does it mean to be a gentleman? Being a gentleman does not mean you are wimpy or overly-sensitive. It does not make you weak or less macho. In fact, being a gentleman gives you a leg up. A gentleman is a chivalrous, polite, and honorable man. These characteristics that make up a gentleman are more than hand-holding and being courteous. They include a proper sense ...

You’re supposed to be able to tell your partner everything without judgement, which is true. But are there secrets you’re allowed to keep in a relationship? Countless magazines tell you that you shouldn’t keep any secrets from your partner. Hell, even I’ve said it. And to some extent, it’s true. You should be able to talk openly and honestly with your partner about anything,  but are there some secrets you’re allowed to keep in a relationship? I would have to say yes. For example, do you really need to tell your partner how many people you’ve slept with? No, you don’t. [Read: The checklist to follow for a happy romance ] The secrets you’re allowed to keep in a relationship Now, this doesn’t mean you need to dodge every question they ask, but there are some things you don’t have to talk about. It’s okay to leave a little mystery. If these secrets were things that happened in the past, you may not have to tell them. Of course, it depends what secrets we’re talking about. Now, ...

A honeymoon phase is when we obsess over our partner. It looks like your honeymoon phase is over, but the signs you’re addicted to your partner are clear. Do you suspect you have some signs you’re addicted to your partner? You feel that without them, you’re not able to continue doing anything. They can be far from perfect, even abusive and destructive in your relationship, yet you’re still next to them. Well, before you take the next step, first evaluate the signs you’re addicted to your partner or not. [Read:  25 relationship rules that makes your love successful ] How to tell the signs you’re addicted to your partner And don’t worry. You’re not the only one who’s been here. I remember when I first fell in love. I literally saw nothing else but him. Everything he did was amazing, and I swear I had thought he was just better than me in every way. Of course, after a while, I started to notice the flaws. These flaws I couldn’t ignore, but I was still addicted to him. Even though...

Learning how to open up to people helps you establish a connection, deepen relationships, and also serve as an outlet for people to express their emotions. But learning how to open up to people isn’t always easy. The process makes you vulnerable to the judgement of less-understanding people. And sometimes, opening up causes emotional stress to those who are not used to doing it. Learning to open up is a part of achieving maturity. It strengthens your relationships by letting others glimpse your character and serves as an emotional cushion when faced with difficult problems. It is essential for people to overcome the fear of vulnerability. [Read: Understanding what makes someone emotionally mature ] Why some people are slow to open up to others In life, you’ll meet two types of people. The first is an open-book person. They have little trouble sharing their thoughts and feelings to others. On the opposite end, people who seldom reveal anything about themselves, even to closest frie...

Being suspicious of your boyfriend can be an iffy game. So, what are the signs he feels guilty for hurting you? We have all been hurt by a guy and it is far from a pleasant experience. Whether he lied, cheated, or royally let you down, being hurt by the guy you care about sucks. These signs he feels guilty for hurting you don’t lie. We are so concerned with how we feel, rightfully so, but how is he feeling? I know, I know. He is the one hurting you, so why should you care how he feels? Well, figuring out if he feels guilty can clue you in on whether or not he has something to feel guilty about. If he feels guilty for hurting you, he likely won’t say sorry. Instead, he might actually be trying to earn your trust back. Or he might overcompensate for his lying, or he gets suspicious of your behavior. [Read:  How to make someone feel guilty and understand the pain they caused you ] How is he hurting you? Guys are not as simplistic as stereotypes make them out to be. Often times, t...

If you want peace of mind, start by getting rid of the toxic people in your life. But how do you know the traits of toxic people around you? If you’re reading this, you’ve woken up to see the people around you aren’t the people you need in your life. But there may be a couple of people that you’re not sure about. Well, how can you tell the toxic people from your real friends? By understanding the traits of toxic people. This is where I come in. I used to have a lot of friends, but now, I can name my friends on both hands. That was after a huge clean-up. Sometimes you just have to do it. Now is your time to clean up and surround yourself with people who truly care. [Read:  How to instantly tell the difference between real and fake friends ] The 13 traits of toxic people that shouldn’t be overlooked Most of us don’t realize we have toxic friends surrounding us until we hit rock bottom or experience a huge success. This is when their true colors come out. Maybe your friends aren’t...

When it comes to learning how to take care of yourself as a woman, there is quite a bit you can do to become the best version of yourself. Women are often taught how to care for children and men, but when do you learn how to take care of yourself as a woman? NOW! Taking care of yourself as a woman comes in many forms. From pampering to standing up for yourself and more. There are endless ways to care for yourself as a woman and become the best you that you can be. What does it mean to take care of yourself as a woman? Everyone needs to know how to care for themselves. We should know how to feed ourselves, clean, bathe; the basics. But as a woman, there is so much that goes into it. Yes, that can mean makeup, skincare, and hair styling, but there is more to it than that. Taking care of yourself isn’t just surviving or looking good while doing it. When it comes to understanding how to take care of yourself as a woman, it is all about how you feel. [Read: Atypical secrets to owning y...

We all want to fall in love, but you know the old saying, love is blind, right? Catch these early relationship red flags to avoid the heartbreak. I said it once and I’ll say it again, love isn’t easy. Sure, you may meet someone that you really like but that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re going to be with that person forever. In fact, you’ll probably go through a couple of “the ones” until you actually meet the one. But, what usually happens is that we ignore the early relationship red flags that they’re not the ones and push through it, ending up heartbroken at the end. Finding someone that you’re actually compatible with isn’t as easy as we thought. Of course, we want our love lives to be a dramatic rendition of Grease or High School Musical. L et’s be honest, that’s not going to happen. The early relationship red flags you need to know You don’t need to deal with heartbreak. I’ve had my fair share and I can honestly say, I could do without it. I dated guys, ignoring the signs ...