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You’ve been friends with this guy, but there is a change in him. Is he really just a friend or are these signs your guy friend is falling for you? If you’ve noticed a slight change in your guy friend or have this feeling that he’s hiding something, well, you’re probably not wrong. What you need to do now is look at the signs your guy friend is falling for you. Sometimes, friendships evolve. The signs your guy friend is falling for you For my entire life, I was a tomboy. Always hanging out with guys, playing sports, and wearing baggy clothes. Some of that was self-esteem and the rest was just feeling more comfortable around men than women. Now, there’s a part of me that believes men and women can be friends—platonic friends. And then there’s this side of me that feels that there’s always some unspoken sexual chemistry floating around in a guy/girl friendship. I have guy friends who I don’t have any feelings for, but then I start to think—do they like me? [Read: Can guys and girls...

Quite the hefty question, isn’t it? If you’re asking yourself how do relationships work, you are one step closer to finding out. Relationships do not just work on their own. They need both people to work together. So understanding how do relationships work exactly is the key to making them work. Yes, relationships are complicated. They are far from simple and opposed to what many people may think, they are hard work.  Without effort from both parties, a relationship simply will not work. But each relationship is different in its own way. How to know when a relationship is not working You may think it is obvious when a relationship is or is not working, but it can be hard to open your eyes to what is right in front of you. Relationships can last a lot longer than they should because one or both people just are not admitting that it isn’t working. You may think things are working because you never fight, but that can mean you are both checked out. Not fighting or arguing could m...

How did ignoring texts and ghosting become normal? But the real question, what does it mean when someone’s ignoring texts on purpose? Have you been ghosted by someone you have a crush on? There’s nothing worse than being ignored. But if you have sleepless nights trying to figure out why they’re ignoring you, stop freaking out. I’m going to tell you some of the possible answers to the question, what does it mean when someone’s ignoring texts on purpose. Plus, I’ll give you some tips on how to deal with it when it happens. What does it mean when your texts are being ignored? Back in the day, *i.e. fifteen years ago, god I’m old* texting wasn’t a thing. If you wanted to talk to someone, you’d call their house phone or knock on their door. [Read: The biggest clues of people who are emotionally immature ] There was no way to avoid someone, you just had to face them. Now, we’re terrified to answer a phone call from our best friends. What happened? Listen, I’m known to ignore texts on ...

These things couples should do together to improve their bond are essential to deepen their relationship. And it goes beyond the typical date. Some of these things couples should do together may initially seem unremarkable, mundane, and even boring. But you’ll find out that it’s the simple and unassuming activities that help you know each other better. After all, a relationship’s foundation is built on a couple’s shared experiences. And the more types of experiences, the more insight gained on each other’s personalities, habits, preferences, and peculiarities. [Read: These 13 signs say your relationship is going to last this time ] Things couples should do together and deepen their bond Dates may seem fun and romantic, but a solid relationship is not defined by the sweet moments alone. Couples should also try the boring, domestic, and weird things to deepen their bond and put their relationship to the test. #1 Travel to a foreign country together. Traveling is not just about the ...

We all know a narcissist or two. Cutting contact isn’t always an option. It looks like you should learn how to set boundaries with a narcissist instead. There are many cases where you can’t run from a narcissist in your life, at least not yet. Maybe your boss is a narcissist, or you have a sibling show signs of narcissism. If that’s the case, they’re not that easy to simply ditch. But here’s the thing, they’re not going to change. So, it’s your turn. You’re going to have to make the big step and learn how to set boundaries with a narcissist. I know, it sounds nerve wracking, but, listen, they’re not changing. So, if you’re tired of them, you’re going to have to put the work in and claim back your sanity. [Read: Tips for setting boundaries for the difficult people in your life ] How to set boundaries with a narcissist I feel like we all have a narcissist in our lives. If you don’t know at least one… maybe you’re the narcissist *insert horror music here*. But in all seriousness, know...

We want our loved ones to be happy, but when everyone says, “I’m fine,” it can be hard to tell what’s up. So, what are the signs of an unhappy person? We all want to help our friends and family be as happy as they can be. But when you don’t know the signs of an unhappy person, how are you supposed to help or just know when to be there? You may even be unhappy yourself, but could be in such denial that you don’t realize it.  The first step to being happier is to know the signs of an unhappy person. Once you see it, you can move forward. Why an unhappy person is hard to spot You may think that noticing when a loved one is unhappy should be relatively easy. But when people are upset, disappointed, or just feeling mediocre, they tend not to show it off. How many times have you felt down yet still told everyone you were fine. No one wants to be a burden or air their dirty laundry. [Read: How to be more affectionate and show someone you care ] You can be unhappy due to personal iss...

When you have that je ne sais quois people love that sex appeal, and if you want to know how to never lose your sex appeal, here are some tips to follow. The thing about sex appeal is that is changes as you age. This doesn’t mean you become less sexy but there are certain areas you’ll need to work harder or ease off in. Let’s start looking at how to never lose your sex appeal. How to never lose your sex appeal I don’t want to be the bearer of bad news, but appearance, sadly, matters. I know, I know. You thought everyone loves you for who you are, and that’s true, but no one is going to approach you if you look like a serial killer. You get where I’m going with this? People make judgments within the first 10 seconds of meeting someone new. This means, the minute you shake hands, they’ve already judged you. Sounds pretty harsh, right? But you do it too, so it is what it is. Now that we’ve all accepted that fact, you also need to accept the fact that sex appeal matters. This doesn’...

Need good questions to ask people? Whether it’s to get to know someone new or connect with friends on a deeper level, you’ve come to the right place. It is always smart to have good questions to ask people on hand. In a job interview? Meeting your boo’s parents? Or reconnecting with an old friend? All of these situations call for good questions to ask people. Good question don’t just fill awkward silences, but they connect us with each other. They are what takes us from asking about the weather to discussing our hopes and dreams. Why do you need good questions to ask people? Are you always drawing a blank? Do you experience a lot of awkward silences? Or maybe you just want to get to know people a little better, but don’t know how to start. There are different questions for each of these occasions. Some are more on the surface level and could be appropriate for anyone from your boss to your mail carrier while others are best suited for those you know already but want to get to know...

You think your partner is your perfect match, but are they really? That’s why understanding the signs of relationship compatibility will help you know. Okay, thinking about the signs of relationship compatibility and if you and your partner are truly meant to be together isn’t an exciting topic to think about. It can get pretty difficult, especially if you conclude that you’re not as compatible as you once thought. But, at the same time, no one said this relationship would last forever. It could be a short-term relationship until you’re ready to move on. Wow, I sound so nice… but it’s the truth, we’re all in this for self-interest. However, if you really like this person, start looking at the relationship seriously and figure out if you are actually compatible and not just in extreme heat for each other. [Read: All the signs you’re actually experiencing lust and not love ] How to tell you have the signs of relationship compatibility You’ve been dating your partner for some time. Y...

It is the starring role in movies and the main character in books, but what does true love feel like in real life? True love is a deep and passionate feeling of affection for another person. And what makes answering what does true love feel like so difficult to explain is that you don’t know it until you’ve felt it. And sometimes even then you aren’t sure. I was 16 when I first fell in love. I was sure it was true love. It was strong and overwhelming and ruled most of my life. And although true love is not always healthy, often it is dysfunctional, what I felt then was not true love. It was puppy love. It was my first love at a time in my life when I didn’t know myself. I was blind to red flags and changed myself to make the relationship work. Although the feelings were so intense, true love comes with a level of respect, admiration, and honesty. [Read: All the reasons why you won’t stay with your first love ] True love versus soulmates True love is not the same thing as a soulmat...

You may be head over heels for this girl, but when a girl says she needs space, what does that even mean? What are you supposed to do? When a girl says she needs space, it can catch you off guard. What does that mean when you’re dating? And if that moment does come, you assume it’s your fault. You did something to piss her off, you made her run away. And sure, that could be the reason, but it’s not necessarily your fault. Everyone loves differently, this doesn’t mean that what you did was wrong, it could just mean it wasn’t for her. So, before you go on some journey of self-discovery, wait a minute. Don’t pack your bag just yet. When a girl says she needs space Listen, as a woman, I can tell you every woman has their own reason for needing space. Yes, I know, we’re complex. But don’t take it so personally. Instead, figure out why she’s asking for some space and then form an opinion. [Read: When a woman pulls away – What she’s really trying to tell you ] It could be something...