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We all worry that we are bothering people when we reach out, but you can learn how to text your crush without being annoying. When I was younger, my biggest fear was that I was annoying. I feared that they didn’t want me around. So, when it came to talking to a crush, that was amplified by a billion. But all said and done, learning how to text your crush without being annoying is an important dating skill. Dating a crush made me so nervous that I would screw things up and embarrass myself. My crush didn’t just not like me back, but he found me annoying. Since then I not only gained confidence in myself but realized I am worthy of others’ attention. I no longer believe that I am a bother or pestering someone just by texting them. But, how do you get there? Well, I can help you learn how to text your crush without being annoying. [Read: How to build your self-confidence and realize you are worth it ] Why do you think you’re being annoying? Before we get into ways for how to text y...

No one likes fighting with friends, and we’re not talking about the “I saw him first” fights. It’s hard, but you can learn how to make up with a friend. What a perfect article for me to write today. I literally had to put how to make up with a friend into practice a couple of days ago. It was our first major fight, and I started it. After traveling for one year, I came back to my hometown, only to find my best friend too busy to spend time with me. Of course, that left me upset and feeling abandoned. I didn’t bring it up right away… it took me a while to muster up the courage to talk about it with her. We never argued before. But, eventually, I did. And it didn’t go well. We had a huge fight; there was yelling, hang-ups, and tears. It was everything you’d expect from a friendship-ending fight. I was pretty sure it was over. But on the same day, we made up. Was it easy to do? No. But it was necessary. In my opinion, that fight made us stronger. We now spend more time talking; giving...

If we don’t feel chemistry right off, we feel like we are settling, but too much passion can cloud our rationality. Should dating be passionate or practical? Should dating be passionate or practical? This is one of the never-ending debates in the world of dating. Should you reach for the stars and hope for a love story like what is portrayed on  The Notebook or Titanic ? Or should you forego the passion and appreciate the other parts of dating, like intellect and conversation? If dating is practical, it can feel like you’re settling for less than the romantic love story of your dreams. But, if it is passionate that could be all you have going for you. Passion often clouds your judgment when it comes to dating. If there is a high level of chemistry and attraction right off the bat, those feelings can override your rational side. You may overlook red flags in favor of that strong whirlwind-like romance. But, if it is all about practicality, you can feel bored or like you’re forc...

If you have someone with narcissistic traits in your life, you need to learn how to handle a narcissist and maintain your own sense of self. Everyone has heard the word ‘narcissist,’ but how many of you have actually encountered one for real? The fact that you’re reading this tells me that you either have a narcissist in your life, or you’re keen to learn about how to handle a narcissist if one ends up in your midst. I’m going to write this from the point of view of someone who might be in a relationship with a narcissist. Remember that narcissism can affect every type of situation in life, from friendships to working relationships, family relationships to simple interactions with people who briefly enter your life. What is a narcissist? A narcissist is someone who displays an inflated sense of self, illusions of grandeur, and someone who simply cannot be wrong — ever. True narcissism is down to NPD, Narcissistic Personality Disorder and is a total lack of empathy. A narcissist, a...

You really like him, but you’re noticing that he’s drifting away. If you’re scared you’re seeing the signs he’s losing interest in you, find out the truth. It’s time to be real with yourself. Do you recognize any of these signs he’s losing interest in you? If you do, it could be true. Now, don’t get upset, it’s okay if he is. But what’s not okay is him treating you like this. By knowing the signs, you can talk to him and move on with your life without being played. Sadly, not all things are meant to last. It just happens Once, I got really into the guy I was seeing very quickly. We would text all the time, go out together. I was starting to think it could turn into an actual relationship. But at some point, the change happened. He stopped texting me and avoided going out with me. I mean, it was pretty clear things were taking a dark turn. I remember sitting on the couch, asking myself, why? I don’t get it, we were great two days ago, and now he’s acting like I have the plague… w...

Sometimes we must deal with difficult people who never fail to ruin your day. Learn how to ignore people like this and keep your mood intact. Understanding how to ignore people ready to rain on your day if they take the form of a boss, co-worker, classmate, or even a family member, means you must deal with them at some point. Social decorum teaches us to be civil or formal in interacting with them… so running the other way at first sight isn’t an option. How to ignore people who might ruin your day Luckily, there are effective ways to ignore *or minimize* the difficult people in your life. With these mild antisocial tactics, you can cleverly avoid prolonged interaction with them. #1 Block them on social media. If they’re on your social media, remove their visual presence by blocking them. Or go a step further and remove them from your contacts list. It will send an obvious message that you don’t want any interaction, real world or virtual. [Read: Social media and relationships: Th...

If you’re thinking about taking some time apart from your partner, you might be wondering what is a break in a relationship exactly? What does it mean? Relationships take hard work and a lot of compromise. Sometimes you reach the point where you really can’t take much more. When this happens, you have two choices. You either walk away for good, or you take a break and see what a little time does for the two of you. So, what is a break in a relationship exactly? If you’re currently going through a difficult patch, you might be unsure what to do. In that case, you might be considering taking a break, and does it really mean the end, or just a hiatus? For many couples a little time apart actually turns out to be a good thing. A fresh perspective is gained, a new appreciation is developed, and everything causing the rift to begin with is seen through clearer eyes. Of course, sometimes a break turns out to be a precursor to an actual break up too. In some cases, the couple find that the...

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When there is a lot of chemistry, things can take off quickly and get too intense. Instead, learn how to slow down a relationship and take your time. Every relationship moves at its own pace, but to be healthy and thriving, that pace needs to feel comfortable for both people. If you want things to last, it is often best to learn how to slow down a relationship and take your time getting to know each other. It isn’t rare for a new relationship to blossom quickly. When strong feelings, especially physical ones, are involved things can get out of hand. It may feel good in the moment, but moving too fast can lead to a commitment you’re not ready for or a serious relationship with someone you barely know. How NOT to slow down a relationship Everyone moves at different paces when it comes to relationships. You may feel like things are going too fast while your partner is perfectly content the way things are. Although there are a plethora of ways to slow down a relationship and take your...

Not everyone is a natural-born sharer. Good news! You can learn how to talk about your feelings in a relationship and be comfortable with it. Whether you are a closed book or a blabbermouth, learning how to talk about your feelings in a relationship can feel so vulnerable.  The worst part is that we can’t explain that either. Your tongue gets tied, you sweat, or you just clam up and can’t say a thing. First things first, this is all normal. So many people struggle to talk about their feelings in a relationship. You are not alone in this. Odds are your partner has dealt with the same thing. Even the most forthcoming of us can struggle to share our feelings when we’re in a relationship. There is a lot of courage and strength needed to be open and honest with how you feel. It can be scary to share such intimate feelings with anyone, especially the person you’re closest with. But, learning how to talk about your feelings in a relationship does not have to come naturally. You can le...

This time of year is all about family. So, do you think of your partner that way? Should you spend the holidays together? Deciding whether or not to spend the holidays with your new boo can be difficult. Of course, you want to see them, but is it too soon? ??It is likely that it won’t just be the two of you but your families as well. Are you ready for that? ??The holidays can put a lot of pressure on a relationship, especially a new one. Even if you try to make it casual, spending the holidays together is a big step. So should you spend the holidays together? There are the gifts, the food, the families, and the customary couple’s photo in front of the tree or another holiday staple. And the bad news is that there is no set timeline for when the perfect time to spend the holidays together is. Is it after 6 months? A year? Do you want to spend the holidays together? I know I probably just freaked you out, but that wasn’t my intention. I just want you to really think about it. Once y...