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Sex in a New Relationship: How to Make the First Time Less Awkward

Having sex with someone new is exciting, but it can be awkward and uncomfortable. But there are things you can do when having sex in a new relationship. Whatever you see in movies or read in books about sex in a new relationship, stop, just stop. I’ve had one experience that I could say was even close to resembling a Hollywood sex scene. The rest of them were filled with sweat, queefs, laughs, and, honestly, awkward moments. But it’s two people having sex, what did you expect? When you’re sleeping with someone that you’ve been with for months or even years, things can become routine. But when you have sex in a new relationship, it’s exciting and full of opportunities for awkwardness. So, what are you going to do? Well, what you should do is calm down. Be happy that you’re having sex with someone! When you’re with someone new, you’re learning this person’s body. You haven’t experienced their body before, you don’t know what they like, what turns them on and vice versa. [Read: The mo...

How to Make Life Easier: 20 Steps to Go from Exhausted to Effortless

Life is tough. Work sucks. Responsibilities are exhausting. Not to mention bills and traffic! Now is the time to learn how to make life easier. We all know that life is hard, and it is only getting harder. The older you get the more responsibilities you have. So, learning how to make life easier is what you need today. And as you get older the bills pile up, you need to see the doctor more often, pay for car insurance, worry about the planet and the state of our nation. It is no wonder you are looking for ways to make life easier. Why is your life so hard? Before you figure out what needs to be done in order to make your life easier, think about why your life is so hard. Do you feel stressed and overwhelmed? Are you constantly in a bad mood? Do you hold grudges? Are you lonely? Are you worried about your financial future? Before you try to learn how to make your life easier in every way, start with the hardest parts of your life and work from there. [Read: Life quotes to motivate ...

How to Tell Someone They Hurt You without Hurting Them in Return

Sometimes people hurt you without knowing, but does that mean you just let it slide? Instead, learn how to tell someone they hurt you. We’re all human. And we’re all susceptible to saying and doing things with the potential to hurt others. Now, there are some people who consciously hurt those for their own personal gain. In that case, they know exactly what they’re doing and how it makes you feel. But if someone does something to you that unknowingly hurts you, well, this is now in your hands. It’s your responsibility to learn how to tell someone they hurt you. [Read: How to stop selfish people and stop them from hurting you ] How to tell someone they hurt you You can’t expect other people to read your mind. Even if they’re aware of what they’re doing, it’s important for you to sit them down and have them understand you know exactly what they’re doing and why. Is this going to be easy? Of course not. In fact, it’s probably going to be really uncomfortable for you. It’s something yo...

How to be Grateful: 15 Authentic Ways to Appreciate and Express It

Someone helps you. You say thanks. Is that how to be grateful? To show your appreciation for support and friendship, there is a bit more involved. Whether you show it regularly or not, you are probably grateful for the people in your life. Whether that is your partner, your mom,   your best friend, or even your postman knowing how to be grateful is healthy for you and incredibly kind to them. Those who express their gratitude and show their appreciation daily are not only more of a joy to be around, but are happier overall. If you take the time to look at your life and think about everything you have rather than focusing on what you want or don’t have, you will feel a lot better. [Read: What actually makes you happy might surprise you ] How to be grateful Being grateful is more than a simple act. It is truly taking the time to appreciate parts of your life, the people in your life, and what they do for you. If someone feeds your cat over the weekend and you give them a gift car...

The 12 Biggest and Yet Subtle Signs You’re Being Taken for Granted

You love your partner, but you feel like a used mop. Instead of feeling good around your partner, you see signs you’re being taken for granted. They say a little appreciation goes a long way. When it comes to relationships, they weren’t joking. Whether you’ve been with your partner for years or months, you’re starting to feel like they don’t appreciate you. Maybe you see the signs you’re being taken for granted or you’re just not sure. Now, I can tell you that they do appreciate you, but I don’t know. They can appreciate you but aren’t showing it or they could just be using your kindness for their own gains. Relationships are tricky. Whatever you do, whether it’s making them their favorite meal as a surprise, taking their dog out for a walk or visiting them when they’re sick, it seems like they don’t notice the effort you put into the relationship. [Read: Are you confusing being love bombed with the real thing? ] Do you see these signs you’re being taken for granted? After a while...

What to Text a Guy to Get His Attention: 25 Texts to Work Your Magic

Guys can be hard to read sometimes. No worries, because here is what to text a guy to get his attention. And keep his attention. You might be thinking that getting a guy’s attention should be easy, but that is not always the case, especially via text. Guys are easily distracted and don’t always want to take part in a full-on texting conversation. So, here is what to text a guy to get his attention. What NOT to text a guy to get his attention Before we get into all the goods, there are some things you should certainly avoid texting a guy. Some just won’t work, while others may get you the wrong kind of attention. And there may be no such thing as bad press, but there is such a thing as bad attention. Trust me, it is better to be off his radar than to be on it in the wrong way. #1 Nude photos. This is just a straight up no. Just don’t do it. No matter how tempting, this is a lot riskier than you think it is. [Read: How to do damage control if your nudes get leaked ] #2 Lies. Don’...

13 Secrets of a Happy Marriage that Can Make or Break Your Romance

Whether newly married or with your partner for a while, you know that marriage takes work, but there are secrets of a happy marriage to understand. We always look at successful couples and think to ourselves, how? What are their secrets of a happy marriage? While you’ve been spending your time reading books on marriage, attending seminars and browsing the web, they just seem to have it all sorted out. Listen, that didn’t come easy. Their realization didn’t come from a seminar, it came from trial and error—lots of it. Of course, everyone wants a happy marriage but not everyone wants to actually put the effort into it. Honestly, it’s exhausting. Add children and work on top of your marriage, and it’s easy to forget the small things which make your marriage happy. [Read: The subtle signs of an unhappy marriage ] The must-know secrets of a happy marriage There some secrets that happy couples keep close to them to make the marriage work. Now, it’s going to take some work, from both of...