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The Accidental Text On Purpose: How to Use It & When To Avoid It

It might sound like a contradiction, but the accidental text on purpose can actually be a very sneaky tool when trying to get someone’s attention! Wait, an accidental text on purpose, what’s that, you say?! For starters, be honest, have you ever attempted to get someone’s attention by using an “oops, sorry, that text wasn’t meant for you” kind of tactic? Come on, own up, we’ve all done it! This is known as the ‘accidental text on purpose’ and it allows you to make contact with someone, perhaps as a nudge, whilst having the pretext of actually not meaning to do so. You can maintain your cover of nonchalance but still receive the desired effect. It’s genius when you think about it! [Read: What to do when you accidentally send a text to the wrong person? ] What is an accidental text on purpose? You might have done this yourself by accident, or you might have been quite obvious about it and tried to pretend it was an accident, but the accidental text on purpose looks like a little l...

15 Signs He’s Fighting His Feelings For You & Holding Himself Back

Ever wondered if a guy likes you but is hiding it? Here are 15 signs he’s fighting his feelings for you when all he wants is for you to like him back. Men can be stubborn creatures especially when it comes to showing their true feelings. In most situations, they will try to keep it cool when they’re in the immediate presence of the girl they’re enamored with, even if they’re struggling deep inside to maintain their composure. Despite this act, a boiling kettle will surely leak out steam at some point and there will be obvious signs he’s fighting his feelings for you, however hard he tries to conceal it. When men fight their feelings, they will say one thing but their behavior will tell you the complete opposite. Therefore, determining his true intentions is possible by careful observation of his actions and body language as you won’t expect him to verbally reveal these feelings to you at the get go. [Read: 16 signs a guy really likes you but is scared and unsure what to do ] Signs ...

How to Be a Freak in Bed and Enjoy Sex in Every Way Possible

Everyone wants to know the secret behind how to be a freak in bed. But are you ready to really know what it takes? If you are, you better keep reading. I get a lot of people messaging me, asking me, what do women love in bed? What blows a guy’s mind during sex? How to be a freak in bed?! Of course, everyone wants to know the answer; it would make life so much easier. Ah, but sex isn’t supposed to be easy and formulated. You know, though you may think there’s a straight answer to these questions, that’s not the case. Everyone wants to know the secret to be a sex god/goddess, but at the end of the day, we’re human beings. There’s no “one-size-fits-all” approach to sex. So, when it comes to learning how to be a freak in bed, I have to tell you, you’re going to be going on a self-discovery journey. That’s right, being a freak in bed is more about you, than it is your partner. Why? Well, your partner could change. One day you could be with person A, and next week, it’s person B. You be...

When Does Flirting Become Cheating? The Guide to Know for Sure

We all draw invisible lines in relationships, mostly around cheating. What does cheating mean to you? And, when does flirting become cheating? As you sit and read this article, I hope you have never been cheated on. I also hope that in your future you never have to deal with the agony and pain of someone you love and trust betraying you in the worst way. The thing is, there is a huge amount of confusion around cheating, and what it actually is. Is flirting cheating? If so, when does flirting become cheating? It’s all so confusing! Okay, we know that cheating as a definition is someone betraying your trust with another person, but does that mean actually sleeping with someone else, kissing them, exchanging text messages which could be considered flirtatious, or does it mean forming an emotional connection? What is cheating to you, and when does flirting become cheating? We all have different variations on where that red line is and what it takes to cross it. Perhaps that is why so ma...

How to Stop Pushing People Away: Why You Do This & How to Stop It

If you’ve been hurt before, self-sabotage can end your relationship before it starts. Learn how to stop pushing people away. Embrace the love you deserve. No matter how badly you want a relationship to work out or how happy you are with your partner, if you’ve been hurt before it is like a chemical reaction. You push people away. If you want to find happiness again, you must learn how to stop pushing people away. Whether you’ve been dumped, cheated on, or even betrayed, getting close to someone again can make your subconscious work in overdrive to prevent you from being hurt again. It is a form of self-preservation. It is our mind’s defense mechanism. We push away the people that make us the happiest or that we love the most. We are terrified of getting hurt again. Even when it isn’t rational or logical, sometimes we feel like we just can’t help it. We hurt the people closest to us before they can hurt us. We leave them before they can leave us. And it sucks. When you push people ...

14 Signs He Has Feelings for Another Woman: Are You His One & Only?

In a relationship, it’s assumed you’re committed to each other. But, sometimes, you’re worried you see the signs he has feelings for another woman. Some people end up developing feelings for other people when they’re in committed relationships. We’re only human after all. You may be thinking he’s the one, but he may not be so sure. In fact, he might even be displaying signs he has feelings for another woman while committed to you. Does this mean he should be going behind your back? Not at all. In reality, you shouldn’t have to be fishing around, seeing if he’s in love with someone else. But not everyone has the courage to tell their partner they have feelings for another person. 14 signs he has feelings for another woman when he’s dating you You meet a guy and fall in love. A classic love story. And you spend your days and nights together, getting to know each other then become a couple. Everything sounds nice and sweet, right? Right. [Read: How to tell when a man is emotionally a...

How to Become Sexually Active & Enjoy the Experience When It’s Time

We all want to believe sex isn’t an important part of a relationship, but it’s time to get real about how to become sexually active in a relationship. Here’s the thing, when it comes to sex, almost every animal, including us, has or will have it. Isn’t that amazing? Every animal on earth had and will have sex. And you’re not much different. At some point, you’ll learn how to become sexually active. Maybe tomorrow, maybe in a year, or in ten years. Nevertheless, sex is in your cards. But, you want more than just sex. You want to have a real intimate experience with your partner. Now, that’s different. You may be wondering how that’s going to happen. How are you going to have an amazing sexual experience? Well, it’s not as hard as you think. How to become sexually active and enjoy the experience Becoming sexually active is all about you and your partner. It’s not about what you’re going to have for dinner or what you need to do at work tomorrow. Sex is all about the moment. [Read:...