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Platonic Sex: Does Having Sex with a Friend Ruin the Friendship?

Many people think it’s possible to have sex with a friend without consequences, but is that true? Can you have platonic sex with your friend? A platonic relationship is basically a friendship between two people that could hypothetically be attracted to one another. In general, we choose our friends because we do find them attractive *not necessarily in a sexual manner*. Can platonic sex live within the platonic relationship? There may be moments in the friendship where one or both people feel occasional sexual tension or ask themselves, “maybe we should try dating?” This relationship could really go either way. What makes it platonic is that both people choose not to act on their occasional feelings of sexual tension. [Read:  Important rules to remember in a friends with benefits relationship ] Is it possible to have platonic sex? Now, I know what you’re thinking. You’re probably like, “well, at some point, these two people are going to end up together or act on their feelin...

Why Won’t He Change? Your Man Says He Will But He Never Does

You are out of patience. He says he will be better, but doesn’t live up to his word. Why won’t he change? Here’s a guide to understand him and help him.   Do you ever find yourself rolling your eyes and wondering why won’t he change?! Whether he never helps around the house, leaves you on read, or drinks too much, it can be a lot to put up with. Even when you build up the courage to ask him, nothing changes. The worst part is that he says he will. He may even promise. And he may even give you hope for a few days or weeks by being the perfect gentleman, but it wears off and you’re back to square one. Why? Does he not love you enough? Is he incapable of change? Does he want to change? Does he hope you’ll just deal with it? [Read: How to stop self-destructive behavior and change your life for the better ] Why does he say he’ll change? Change is hard for all of us. Whether it is a new job, a new house, or just a new hairstyle, adapting to something new is difficult. But when the ...

15 Texts to Make Him Think About You, Miss You & Want You Closer

Away from your guy? If you want to turn his mind back your way, here are a few texts to make him think about you with a big smile on his face. Making a guy remember you and think of you fondly has never been easier. And if you’re looking for texts to make him think about you and miss you, well, here’s everything you need to know about what to text, and how to time it just right. And you have technology to thank for it. Technology has a lot to answer for, but it’s also brought us countless fantastic communication methods which make flirtation super-easy in the modern day! Can you imagine a time without texting or instant messaging? You had to actually telephone someone and tell them how you feel or what you want, with your actual voice! Shock horror! Even worse, you might have had to go up to them and tell them in person. How embarrassing! [Read: 12 common texting habits of girls that push guys away ] What to text a guy to make him think of you Thankfully, we’re not long stuck in...

How to Sext a Girl and Warm Her Up to Getting Naughty With You

If you’re not comfortable sexting a girl, odds are you’re not going to do it, or it’s not going to go well. It’s about time you learned how to sext a girl. Learning how to sext a girl isn’t easy. Well, sexting whether you’re a guy or girl isn’t easy, especially if you’re new at it. There’s a lot of things you need to keep in mind, and if you’re nervous, it can hinder the experience. Firstly, most of us don’t know how to take it to the next level without coming on too strong. You want to make sure she wants to take it to the next step, and that it’s a smooth transition. If you don’t know how to sext a girl, there’s a chance that you’re either going to try to avoid it or you’ll struggle to go through this part of the relationship. I don’t want any of those things to happen to you. Though it’s going to take some practice and time before you become more comfortable, it’s important you give it a try. Sexting is a great way to increase the sexual tension between you two and amplify your ...

Moody Friend? How to Get Along When You Don’t Want to Dump Them

Are you having a hard time dealing with a moody friend? Here’s something you need to think about if you want to give your friendship a real chance. Having a moody friend can be quite a challenge. For one, you’re going to need extra patience to handle unpredictable mood swings that may easily ruin an otherwise cheerful environment. In order to preserve your relationship with them, you‘ll have to learn how to deal with a moody friend. In normal situations, moody people tend to be avoided by others because no one knows when their emotional Russian roulette might fire up. This constant switch between moods can be stressful to anyone and they would rather find someone else to hang out with instead of dealing with all the drama that follows. [Read: How to tell if a friend is toxic and brings unhappiness to your life ] How to handle a moody friend without losing your mind With friends, it’s a different story. We need to exert some extra effort in understanding their mood swings as a sho...

The Burning Question: Why Are People Mean to Nice People?

You’re a nice person, and you care about others. So, why are people constantly taking advantage? Exactly why are people mean to nice people? To understand why are people mean to nice people, we need to start by looking at the world around us. The world is a tough place to be. If you turn on the news on the TV, you see constant heartache, pain, upset, and political drama. If you look at your social media feeds, you see comparisons and more drama. It’s not a pleasant place to be! For that reason, most of us try to inject a little positivity into proceedings and simply be a nice person. It’s not a crime, right? I try to do my best by other people and treat them as I would like to be treated. That’s something my parents have always instilled into me as a child. I hate rudeness, I’m all about manners, and if I see someone being treated unfairly, it riles me up. I’m a nice person, and I’m quite proud of it. [Read: How to be nice to people – 9 simple rules that can change your world ] T...

How to Text After a First Date & Make Them Fall for You Even Harder

You had a first date, and you’re hoping there’s a second date. Knowing how to text after a first date can make or break your chances of a second. Understanding how to text after a first date is always tricky. Your date went well, so you want a second. That’s not the tricky part. Figuring out what to do after the first date can be the hard part. There’s the idea of the “three-day rule,” but why would you wait three days until you text the person you’re interested in? Now, I don’t know how you handle yourself on a date or after the date ends. You could be amazing on the date, and your weak spot is the texting in between or vice versa. But we’re going to focus on after the first date. [Read: The follow-up texting guide after that great first date ] How to text after a first date You want another date; I get it. But how are you going to handle the days in between dates? Going completely silent isn’t going to do the trick, and neither will be texting them every three minutes. Now, y...