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Confidence has so much more power than you think. Learning how to feel good about yourself can open up more doors that’ll allow you to own your life. Insecurity sucks. We all have it to some degree but if we could get rid of it entirely, we all would. That being said, some of you may be struggling even more than anyone else. Knowing how to feel good about yourself no matter what is definitely something you’ll want to learn. Because you need to love yourself. No matter what you want to do in life, confidence will help you immensely. And conversely, feeling crappy about yourself more often than not will hold you back. Beating yourself up mentally every day will only make things harder There are a lot of people who know they have confidence issues and then continuously put themselves down. If you’re someone who’s thinking, “you’re so insecure it’s unattractive,” or “nobody is going to like you,” or “you can never be as confident as that person,” then you’re doing yourself no favors. ...

Yes, that is right. Technically and literally, the Peter Pan complex is no fairy tale, neither is dating someone with it. Leave him to Captain Hook! Ah, if I think of the most hideous fable, fairy tale, or story *since I am not sure what Peter Pan is* it would be Peter Pan. The problem with Peter Pan is that the story is never-ending. Wait, did I say never-ending? The man with the Peter Pan complex won’t ever find his way out of Neverland regardless if you think you are Wendy or not. 10 dreaded signs of the Peter Pan complex Driven by a man’s incessant need not to grow up and take responsibility for both his life and his actions, the proverbial flying around from land to land is more like flying around from noncommitment to noncommitment. If you think you’ll pull him from his fantasy world, think again. If the Peter Pan syndrome takes hold, you’re wrong. There is no way to get a hold of him. #1 He still calls “ mommy” for her opinion. The Peter Pan syndrome isn’t just about not ...

Falling in love is the best. But how do you know it’s real? Well, you know you’re in love when you experience these 30 crazy feelings of love. When you first start dating someone, if things go well and the relationship progresses, it’s likely that your feelings will intensify and grow stronger. Those first flickers where you feel as though you might be falling in love with someone are so exciting. You start to wonder ‘what if?’ However, while having these feelings is truly wonderful, they also cause a little insecurity. Well, you know you’re in love when you experience these feelings. Often people want to make sure that they are definitely falling in love before they take that big step and tell the other person. If they aren’t sure how the other person will react or whether they will say it back is particularly nerve-wracking. It leaves you feeling rather vulnerable and exposed. For others, being sure that they have fallen in love is also important because they don’t want t...

You may be complaining that your partner doesn’t know how to turn you on, but at the end of the day, you need to know how to make yourself horny first. So many of us get stuck into this mindset where we believe that we need to find a partner who knows how to turn us on. Now, this isn’t wrong, you want to find someone who will arouse you and make you orgasm, but you also want to know how to make yourself horny too. How can this person turn you on when you don’t know what actually turns you on? See where this can become a problem? How to make yourself horny You want to be able to know your body and know how it reacts when your fingers are in a specific position or if you’re more likely to orgasm when the lights are on. See, these are things that you need to discover on your own. This is why finding out what makes you horny is so important. It will not only bring you to a place where you’re comfortable with yourself, but it will also help you be comfortable with your partner. Before a...

Getting married is a huge deal. You need to be sure you’re with the right person. These questions to ask before marriage will help you know for sure. You may never be able to tell for SURE if someone is 100% perfect for you. You just have faith that they are and see where the relationship and your life together takes you. But you should be really CLOSE to sure they’re the one you want to spend your life with. These questions to ask before marriage will definitely help you see if they’re good for you or not. Society expects people to get married And that’s the reason most people do it. Not because they necessarily believe in marriage and want to spend their life with someone but because it’s expected of them. After a certain age, people start questioning why someone’s not married. That pressure can often make people marry someone they shouldn’t. Divorce follows closely after relationships like this. But it could’ve easily been prevented by asking a few simple questions. Most of the ...

In the wide ocean of dating websites, knowing how to write a dating profile allows you to cast a bigger net and catch a potential partner suited to you. Effective marketing is a key aspect to successful enterprise. Online dating included. In the same way a job-seeker requires an enticing resume to get an employer’s attention, a person looking for love online needs to know how to write a dating profile to be successful in their search. How to write a dating profile “But I’m not that much of a writer.” While it may help, it’s not absolutely necessary. The perfect dating profile is not purely the quality of word-stringing involved. Instead, it’s the content, ideal length, and the amount of identity you put in it. So, when faced with the section asking you to “tell me something about yourself” remember the tips to follow. #1 Be more specific and avoid the usual clichés.  One pitfall for online dating profiles is the inclusion of the usual clichés such as “looking for the girl/boy o...

Don’t say things like “you’re not depressed” to them. Instead, try these more effective ways for how to deal with a depressed person. If you have never experienced depression, well, first of all, you’re very lucky. And second of all, it’s not an easy thing to go through. Of course, you may have been dumped and felt depressed for a couple months but then eventually you bounced out of it. Learning how to deal with a depressed person means a lot more than a flip phrase. For some people, it’s not that simple as to just “bounce out” of it. Of course, if you’ve never experienced depression, you wouldn’t know. So, I get it. And it’s great that you ended up on this feature because you want to know what you need to do to help you and this person out. [Read: Is it ever worth dating someone with depression? ] How to deal with a depressed person When you ask a depressed person what depression feels like, most of them describe it as feeling as if stuck in a dark hole. Of course, there’...

Dirty things to men and women might be more different than you expect. If you want to get her engines going, try these 25 dirty things to say to a girl. If you’re looking for dirty things to say to a girl because your love life has been, well, a little less lovely, you research the wrong thing. It isn’t that women don’t desire sex as much as men. It is just that we can’t just turn our emotions off and get busy no matter how hard you try to up our libido. If you look for dirty things to say a girl, they just might be the exact opposite of what you think. 25 unexpectedly dirty things to say to a girl For most girls in a relationship, sex ties heavily to emotions, whether they like to admit it or not. If you say things to get her revved up and forget about the things that really make her sexual desire tick, she might be feeling like all you have in mind is one thing. It isn’t her stimulating personality. If you have a hard time connecting sexually with your mate, try these dirty thin...

When it comes to the type of girls men love, the high value woman takes the cake. If you want to know how to achieve this status, we have some tips. All men want a high value woman. The problem is, a lot of women aren’t sure how to be that. Sure, you see these confident, powerful women around but usually, you don’t see any men accompanying them. So how do you become a high value woman that men will never want to leave? It’s not as easy of a process as you think but it’s also not hard, either. A lot of the time, being this type of woman comes naturally the older you get. The types of women men don’t like at all Obviously, all men are different. Some like certain types of girls while others like the opposite. However, there are a couple girl types guys just can’t stand. Those are the whiney, helpless girls that walk around needing to be saved. You might think this is cute, and perhaps some guys will even find it alluring at first, but after a while, it’ll get really annoying. Girls ...

We all lie from time to time, we’re only human. If you’ve noticed, not everyone lies in the same way… so, what types of liars are there? Here’s the thing, there’s no one in the world who hasn’t lied. Okay, there probably is but they’re also probably not very well liked amongst their family and friends. I should say lying is bad, and in most cases, it is. But there are levels to the types of liars. The different types of liars that you’ll encounter There are some moments where we have to lie. For example, your pregnant, emotional wife asks you if she looks fat. Well, she’s pregnant so, yeah, she looks a little thicker than her regular self. Do you tell her she looks fat? Of course not. You say, “No, baby, you look beautiful, I love you just the way you are.” Though that is true, the first part, that part where you said no, is a lie. [Read: 8 scenarios where white lies can save your relationship ] You see how easy it is to lie? And for some of us, we don’t even consider that an a...

The passive aggressive personality falls in as a personality disorder. Characterized by negativity, sullenness, and blamelessness, they aren’ t much fun. Let’s face it, we ALL can be passive aggressive – when you say something appearing passive, but the underlying tone is quite aggressive defines it. For most of us, it creeps up when we aren’t expecting it. But, for some, it becomes an entire way of life. For the passive aggressive personality, underlying hostility seethes. What is an example of being passive aggressive? Imagine this, you ask your friend where they want to go for the night. They say “I don’t care, you choose.” Then you say “Let’s go to McGonaguls,” and their answer is “Oh, not that place.” The passive nature in them led them to say “I don’t care.” But, the follow-up negation of where you want to go is where the aggression lies. I don’t care—how stupid. See the dichotomy? [Read: 15 best ways to cut out the drama in conflict ] The 15 signs of passive aggressive person...

Being nice costs nothing and makes you feel great! Here are 65 nice things to say to people and create a little sunshine in the world. There is nothing more flattering than being thought of as a really nice person. Being nice to people takes no time at all, hardly any effort and you make an incredible difference to those around you. It also fills you with that warm fuzzy feeling of wellbeing. Here is a comprehensive list of nice things to say to people and make the world a little better. You never know what someone might be going through or how they might feel that day. Whether it’s your best friend, your mom, or a stranger, taking the time to say something nice to someone makes all the difference. Being nicer is something we should all strive for. You’ll also probably find the nicer you are to people the nicer they are back. Niceness rubs off on people. So, spreading the love means the person you were nice to will go onto be nicer to someone else and so on. Paying it forward in th...