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You and your ex broke up, but you’re hungry for them to return. We’ve all been there. But how can you know the answer to, will my ex come back or not? Haven’t we all wondered, will my ex come back? I know I have. Though I broke up with an ex, it took me years to move on. I was constantly in a debate with myself—wondering whether or not I made the right decision. Of course, we would go back and forth, breaking up one day and getting back together the next. In the moments where I was alone, I constantly worried about whether or not my ex would come back to me. In hindsight, I was in a destructive relationship of game playing, but that’s not necessarily the case with you. You may have broken up with your partner or taken a break and realized that your relationship is something worth fighting for. [Read: The subtle signs your ex is missing you ] Will my ex come back? If that’s the case, naturally, you want your ex to come back to you. Perhaps you think too much time has passed or that...

Witnessing someone you care about flying into a rage is terrifying. Dealing with narcissistic rage means a decision. Do you want this in your life?   How do you deal with someone who becomes raging angry for no specific reason, other than the fact that you’ve dented their ego a little? Welcome to the world of narcissism, and narcissistic rage in particular. Everyone gets angry from time to time. When we’re angry, we often say things we don’t mean. We might wave our arms around, and we may even do something ill-advised and stupid. While hurting someone in a fit of anger is never acceptable, being angry is a normal human emotion. Most of us understand anger and deal with it as an emotion in a normal way, most of the time. Sometimes anger bubbles up, but we know how to get over it. It usually bubbles up and subsides pretty quickly. While not ideal, it is quite normal. It is different than the narcissistic rage. [Read:  Watch out for these 15 types of toxic relationships ] Why...

You’re really into her, but something has faded. Was it something you said? Was it something you did? Let’s find out when a woman loses interest in a man. Listen, it’s important I clear things up – this article isn’t a man-bashing article. That’s not what I’m trying to do here. And if you wonder when a woman loses interest in a man – YOU – there’s a high chance it has nothing to do with you. Sure, she may not like some characteristics you have, for example, but that’s not a reflection of you. Everyone has different preferences when it comes to the person they see themselves being with. Is it fair? No. Is their ideal person necessarily someone they should be with? No. But, at the same time, you can’t force someone to like you; it’s something they must do on their own. I mean, you can manipulate someone into liking you, but that never lasts. Manipulation is a big dating problems. You like someone, and you want them to like you back, so you alter your personality or fabricate informa...

All relationships grow and progress at a different pace, and learning how to take a relationship slow could be exactly what you need. For some reason, we all feel this need to rush things. We need our Amazon orders to come in an hour. We need traffic to be nonexistent. And we need our first date to turn into a relationship overnight. We could all learn how to take a relationship slow. Because when something is done quickly, it may not be done right. When you rush into a relationship, you may bypass important milestones that help you grow together maturely. Whether you feel your relationship is moving too quickly or you want to know how to take a relationship slow from the start, it will pay off. [Read: How to fall in love slowly like you’re in a fairy tale ] How to take a relationship slow from day one Whether you’re going on a first date or have been seeing someone casually, taking things slow doesn’t have to be complicated. In fact, it is quite the opposite. If you know you wan...

Tired of Facebook? Bored of Instagram? Learn how to flirt on Snapchat successfully. If you’re not a fan of Snapchat or never used it, give it a go. If you thought Snapchat was purely a place to morph yourself into a dog, complete with panting tongue, or somewhere to magically conjure up stars sparkling around your head, you’re wrong. Snapchat is actually far more useful than you might first think. While it does have its fair share of cute *sometimes annoying* filters, that’s not all it’s good for. So, let’s learn how to flirt on Snapchat! Let’s face it, Facebook isn’t what it used to be. Instagram is packed with too many influencers or your friend’s lunch. If you want a platform for flirting with a difference, somewhere you can be unique and show off your quirky side, Snapchat is the ideal place to go. [Read: How to master your Snapchat flirting game ] Isn’t Snapchat just for 13-year-olds? No! Snapchat is fun for all ages. Okay, taking a snap with a pair of dog ears or a fluffy rab...

Texting in the early stages of dating isn’t easy, especially when you don’t want to screw anything up. Here are 12 texting habits you should have. Are you caught up in the early romance of dating? It can feel uncertain, wondering if they really like you or not. Luckily, you have all the information you need to help you develop healthy habits for texting in the early stages of dating. The early stage is pretty sensitive because you aren’t a couple yet. Naturally, I know you want this person to like you back and want to be with you, so there are a couple of things you should do to make sure you play it cool and have them come to you. It’s easy to get caught up in feelings and excitement. Follow these tips, and you’ll be able to text the person you’re dating with ease. [Read: How to start a conversation over text and get them texting back ] Texting in the early stages of dating: 12 texting habits to have When I was growing up, texting wasn’t even a thing. In fact, you had to pay per ...

Didn’t know much about how to be kinky until you saw Fifty Shades of Grey ? While the movie is cheesy, it’s changed the way we look at our kinky side. If you thought you were the only one who has kinky thoughts, well, think again. In reality, one in five individuals incorporate know how to be kinky in their regular bedroom play. And that number is growing. More and more people are exploring their sexuality and engaging in kinky sexual activities such as spanking and role-playing. And frankly, I’m surprised. Just a few years ago, being kinky was seen as taboo. But, thanks to mainstream media, kinks are now a normal part of sex, with more people openly speaking and engaging in it. [Read: 10 kinky sex positions to make every night hot and steamy ] How to be kinky We don’t really have much of a definition for the word kinky. It basically means everything that’s outside of “normal” sex. If you know what “normal sex” is, please, let me know. If you’ve been having “normal sex,” you may ...

A narcissist thrives on attention, lapping it up and twisting their behavior. It’s time to turn the tables and cut off that needy narcissistic supply. Narcissism seems to be a buzz term these days. The problem is, dealing with a narcissist in real life is nothing to joke about. A narcissist can turn your world upside down, leaving you wondering what side is up. Put simply, you’ll be dizzy. If you understand your own mind at the end of it, you’ll be lucky, which is why you should learn how to cut off the narcissistic supply ASAP. I can say all of this with confidence because I was in a relationship with a narcissist. Thankfully I got out of it before I lost myself in it. Many others are not so lucky. Understanding why a narcissist is so dangerous, we must understand what a narcissist is. [Read: How to spot a narcissist instantly and save yourself a world of pain ] What is a narcissist? Now, a real narcissist is someone diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder *NPD*. This...

Breakups aren’t easy. Usually, we end up more confused after the relationship. What do the signs your ex is confused mean for you and your relationship? If your ex is telling you they want you back, don’t rush into it. You need to take a step back and see the signs your ex is confused. That way, you’ll know what to do next. After my long term relationship *four years!*, it took me a while to get over my ex. Throughout the relationship, I wasn’t sure if I wanted to be with him, and my emotions and self-esteem got the best of me. I didn’t think I could find someone who would love me the same way and make me feel happy, even though I knew my ex wasn’t the one for me. So, I stuck it out and stayed in the relationship. But, eventually, it came to an end. Going through a breakup is really hard, and during the process, it makes you think about your ex in a different light. On the nights where you’re sad and lonely, you think about the good times you had—and it sucks you back in. [Read: The...

If you think you’re struggling with emotional dependency, research it. From there, figure out if you are emotionally dependent and how to change it. If you are dealing with emotional dependency, then you know it is not just one thing. Emotional dependence can come from childhood, a toxic relationship, as well as so much more. Emotional dependence can show itself through low self-esteem, codependency, as well as denial, resentment, fear… The list goes on.  What is emotional dependency? Emotional dependency is not something easily dealt with. Because it causes your happiness to change based on someone else or the success of a relationship or situation, it can be hard to break from that pattern. Emotional dependency can be compared to addiction. Rather than being addicted to a substance, you can be addicted to a feeling or person. The same way an addict’s feelings are based on the high, an emotionally dependent person’s feelings are based on their link to someone or something. Y...

Being a good person isn’t hard, but it doesn’t happen out of thin air. So, what are the good qualities of a person? It’s time you find out. Growing up, my teacher would tell the class that we need to be good people. Of course, we’re kids, so we nodded in agreement. I don’t think any of us really understood what that meant. What are the good qualities of a person? Does walking your dog every day or cleaning your room qualify you as a good person? We think the answer to this question is easy. But it’s not actually. It took me years to understand what I thought were the good qualities of a person. And it took me even longer to practice them. 15 must-know good qualities of a person It’s a lot easier to let someone else do the things that good people do while you reap the benefits. But at the end of the day, people only see you as selfish and needy. And let me tell you, no one likes those traits. [Read: How to be true to yourself and start living your life on your terms ] But if you’r...