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If you *and everyone else* are asking: are we just friends or is he interested? You need to know, and I am here to help you know the difference. Are we just friends or is he interested, is probably one of the most popular questions I am asked. Most women are trying to figure out whether or not a guy is interested or just a friend. What can I tell you? Sometimes, it’s easy to spot the signs. Other guys are tricky and like figuring out a Rubik’s cube. Who has the time for that? Sure, you have amazing chemistry, and the conversation blows your mind. But you don’t really know what’s going on between you. [Read: How to read the subtle hints of friendly versus flirty ] How to answer the conundrum: Are we just friends or is he interested? The best way to figure it out? Ask him. I know it’s not the easiest thing to do, but you’ll have your answer. Maybe not the one you were looking for, but at least it’s an answer. On the other hand, I know you may not be ready to make that move, and I g...

You’ve casually dated for a while, and you’re ready to take the relationship to the next level. Do you see the signs she’s ready for a relationship too? You may really like her and want something more, but you’re not the only one involved in the relationship. That’s right, what about her? Is she exhibiting the signs she’s ready for a relationship or are there red flags? We’re only human. Naturally, we’re pretty selfish when it comes to love. We want to be with someone who makes us happy. Sure, there comes a time when we wonder about how the other person feels, but that’s only because we want them to like us. At the end of the day, we’re really only concerned about ourselves. This creates some problems, especially in a relationship. 15 signs she’s ready for a relationship with you You may be ready, but if she’s not ready then your relationship won’t last. Both people need to be equally ready and committed to it. Before you even ask her if she wants to be serious with you, she shou...

Having a crush is both terrifying and exciting. The possibilities are endless! Not sure how to get closer to your crush? Read on! The most exciting part of a crush is not knowing whether they like you back or not. You might think that sounds horrible—the uncertainty and all the what if’s. It’s actually the opposite. When you’re not sure what’s going to happen, there is a huge amount of hope and opportunity. And you just want to know how to get closer to your crush. The only way to really get your definitive answer is to go for it and find out. If you’re short on courage and don’t want to come out with it and ask, there is another option. Get close to your crush and figure it out from there! You should also subtly let them know that you’re crushing in their direction. In that case, they might make the whole thing easier and ask you out instead! Of course, figuring out how to get closer to your crush is a question many people ask. It’s actually not that hard, but you need a little cr...

You feel oceans apart with the person you’re chatting with. Something is missing. It could be they display characteristics of people who lack empathy. Think everyone has empathy? That isn’t always the case. In fact, there are quite a few people who completely missed the info session on being empathetic and show characteristics of people who lack empathy. Instead of listening or supporting you when you need someone, they suck the energy right out of you. They don’t listen, and it almost feels like they don’t care. This is because they’re not putting themselves in your shoes. Empathy is an extremely powerful force. It allows us to understand how the people around us feel and think. You want to surround yourself with empathetic people. So, let’s look at the signs of people who lack empathy, that way, you can stay far away from them. [Read: Why empathy is so important for a successful relationship ] How to tell the characteristics of people who lack empathy Some people just get you. ...

Often times, first dates suck, but on the off chance that you have strong feelings after a first date, what should you do about it? First dates are vital to a potential relationship. They can also be short meetings just to see if you click. They can be awkward and uncomfortable or horrible and require an escape maneuver. And they can be misleading. But, what happens when you have strong feelings after a first date? Well, be happy for starters. I would say first dates tend to flop more often than they flourish, so enjoy the feeling. Why do you have strong feelings after a first date? The most prominent reason you would have strong feelings after a first date is infatuation. You clicked. You are attracted to them and things went well. Great. But that does not mean you are going to get married. It doesn’t even mean you will have a second date. [Read: How to tell the difference between infatuation and love ] I myself have felt strong feelings after a first date, but they can quickly s...

Your stomach is full of butterflies. You can’t sleep nor eat. Could it be you’ve fallen in love? It’s time to know all the signs you’re in love with him. Maybe you’ve been in love before, but no two loves are the same. Sometimes what we think is love is simply lust. While other times what we think is nothing actually ends up being full out love. But you can learn the signs you’re in love with him to figure out what you’re actually feeling. How to tell the signs you’re in love with him I don’t make the rules when it comes to love. I wish I did though! It would make things a lot easier at the end of the day. But then again, everyone loves the excitement of figuring out if it’s love and the experience of feeling love. This is why you’re here. You want to figure out what your feelings mean. It’s not easy figuring out your feelings. Though we assume love is a feeling easy to identify, it’s not always true. When your head starts debating with what your heart is feeling, the idea of love ...

Spotting the signs of unspoken attraction isn’t always easy. Once you got them down, you’ll be able to answer who’s into you and who’s not. An unspoken attraction is fun to figure out. You have these butterflies in your stomach when you see them, but you’re not sure how they feel so. You spend your day creeping on them on their social media and deciphering everything they do and say to you. So, you know you like them, but what signs of unspoken attraction do they display? I get it, it’s a little dramatic. But who doesn’t love a little drama every now and then? Exactly. Eventually, you just want to know what’s going on. Usually, this conclusion will happen on its own, especially if they feel the same way about you. I mean, how long can people go liking each other without losing their minds? How to read the signs of unspoken attraction Anyways, it’s time for you to get one step closer in figuring out what’s going on between you and this person. Is there an unspoken attraction between...

You’ve got yourself a date—great news! Now the reality sets in of what you must do, how to plan a date to remember! It’s all in the creativity… A great date isn’t about huge amounts of money spent. It’s not about doing something crazy and out there. No, knowing how to plan a date to remember is about being creative, thinking of something fun, and being yourself. It’s really that easy! Most of us panic when it comes to planning a first date. We’re so high on the energy of them actually agreeing to go out with us. Then, the panic of what to actually do on the date dawns on us. The good news is that understanding how to plan a date to remember isn’t really about needing huge amounts of time or cash. It’s about thinking outside the box. [Read:  30 fun first date ideas that leave them wanting more ] How to plan a date to remember: The dos and don’ts Let’s explore this subject a little more deeply, and touch upon the dos and don’ts of a great date. #1 Do avoid checking your phone. ...

We all think we are nice people who do nice things, but when does our caring and patience turn into being taken advantage of? Being taken advantage of is an awful feeling. It means you are not only putting in more effort than you’re getting in return, but you are also not being appreciated. People are taking the amazing things you do and passing it off as their own, not reimbursing you, or just straight up using you. Not only is it unfair to be treated like this, but it can even give you a complex. It can be so ingrained in your psyche that you do not even realize it is happening. Whether it be at work, home, with a friend, or a partner, notice these signs so you can put stop to it and finally get what you deserve. [Read:  15 ways to spot selfish people and stop them from hurting you ] Do you already think you are being taken advantage of? If your gut says you are putting in more effort than you get in return, you are probably being taken advantage of. And that sucks. But som...

Want to surprise your girlfriend the next time you feel hot and heavy? I know what you need. Learn some new sex tricks to impress your girlfriend. We all have our routines when it comes to sex. Is there anything wrong with that? Nope. Maybe your regular sex routine isn’t bad at all. In fact, you and your partner may be able to nail each move perfectly and finish everything up in under fifteen minutes. Again, there’s nothing wrong with that. But if you are looking to create some spice, consider learning these sex tricks to impress your girlfriend. I have a regular sex routine with my partner and we enjoy every moment of it. But, there are times where we want to switch things up and bring a little spice into the bedroom. That’s also okay. When it comes to sex, whatever you decide together is good. As long as the decision is made together and you’re both satisfied. Maybe she’s hinted she wants to spice things up or maybe you want to surprise her with a new move. [Read: How to spice up ...

Have you noticed little things and feel like your friendship is a one-way street? You’re probably right. Learn how to handle a friend who uses you. There are countless people we encounter in our lives. Most are good people, but there are always some we meet who aren’t. What can I tell ya? The world isn’t a perfect place. But I can give you some advice for how to handle a friend who uses you. I’ve met people who I thought were my friends, but they ended up only using me for a place to crash. Did I realize it right away? No. But with enough time, I put two and two together. And it definitely stung once I found out. I ended up letting go of those people and making new, genuine friends. I think that is why you’re here as well. [Read: 15 signs you have shitty friends and need to get new ones ] How to handle a friend who uses you It really wasn’t easy for me to handle friends that used me. Who wants to accept that people have been using them? No one. But once you find out, take action! D...