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How to Be a Classy Lady: 14 Small Details that Define Class & Poise

Class is more than talking politely. It’s something deep in you. You know how to be a classy lady, you just need to harness it. My mom always told me to act more like a lady. Of course, I would always look at her surprised while sitting on the couch with my legs spread open, eating a bag of chips. I am a classy lady! Just look at me! Okay, I was living in denial. Though I can’t call myself the ultimate classy lady, I’ve cleaned myself up since that traumatic moment. But for many of you, you may wonder how to be a classy lady. [Read: The 20 classy traits that demand awe and respect ] How to be a classy lady Well, a classy lady isn’t about wearing a knee-high skirt. I mean, it helps, but that’s not the essence of a lady. When you see a classy lady, this vibe comes mostly from how she holds herself. See, you have to believe that you are a classy woman then it shows itself to others. Remember the movie Princess Diaries ? Anne Hathaway didn’t see herself as a princess until she started

How to Date Successful Women and Not Feel Like Less of a Man

Traditionally, men were the breadwinners. Increasingly, women are bringing home the dough. Here, we show you all the ways to date successful women. A new breed of woman—the high-earning, successful woman—is on the rise. From company CEOs to business moguls, more and more successful women today are out-earning men. And how do men feel about this? Many confess they feel emasculated. As their female partners, who society and tradition have long dictated belong in the house and with the kids instead of behind desks, are now wearing the pants in the relationship, as the breadwinner. How to date high-powered and successful women without feeling small If you are one of those men who feel having a girlfriend more successful than you is a blow to your ego, you’d better read up on these tips to help you deal with dating successful women. #1 See her as a person and not a title or bank account. Having a girlfriend more successful in her career than you are in yours is no different than havin

Having Sex Too Soon: 12 Consequences You Have to Be Prepared For

There are a lot of reasons you’d want to get in bed with someone you really like, but consider the consequences of having sex too soon first. Sex is a really important part of any relationship. I can’t deny that. But something many people don’t think about is the fact that when you have sex can also become a major factor. If you hop in the sack before you’re ready, it could cause major issues in your relationship. We’ve outlined the 12 consequences of having sex too soon. Now, this isn’t just when you have sex for the first time either. Although these consequences definitely affect you when it’s your first time, you also run into issues when you get too hot and heavy too soon in a new relationship. Why emotional intimacy is crucial When you start a new relationship with someone, your priority should be building an emotional connection with them. You should get to know them on a deeper level before you get physical. Why? Because if you’re looking for a long-lasting relationship, yo

Is it Safe to Have Sex With a UTI? The Guide You Shouldn’t Ignore

A UTI has strong symptoms, but is it stronger than your libido? Before you ignore it, here are legit reasons you won’t want to have sex with a UTI. Having a urinary tract infection (UTI) is a huge thorn in your sex life, not to mention painful in most other ways. So, when the cramping and swelling subsides, many are left wondering if it’s safe to resume having sexual interactions. So, what’s the deal? Is it safe to have sex with a UTI? Read on to find out. What is a UTI? What is a urinary tract infection? A UTI refers to any infection that reaches your urinary system, including your urethra, bladder, ureters, or kidneys. Basically, a UTI is an internal infection that leads to agonizing pain. Sounds like a good time, right? So you get a checkup, go on antibiotics, and finally feel your painful symptoms subside. Now you’re feeling fresh and ready to get frisky, but is it safe to have any kind of sex with a UTI? Can it affect your partner or cause your UTI to come back with a vengeanc

How to Be Hot: 14 Tips to Revamp and Reveal the Hot and Sexy You

If you’re on Instagram or Facebook, you’re constantly bombarded with images of hot people. But the secret to knowing how to be hot is already inside you. I’m a little biased when it comes to understanding how to be hot. The problem is that everyone’s trying to look like Kim Kardashian. Now, I’m not saying she’s not hot, she’s hot. But that’s only one way to look hot. But since it’s all we see on social media, it’s easy to make that specific look the definition of beauty. In reality, not all of us will have asses that plump or tits that look like firm bags of sand. I don’t have tits, this is just a fact, and I’m not going to get them anytime soon. Does that make me less attractive? A tutorial for how to be hot So, before you get yourself into a panic attack, wondering if you’ll ever be hot because you don’t have a perfectly symmetrical face, take a breath. No one is perfect, like, literally no one. But, you can be the hottest version of yourself. That is totally possible. Now, how

When You’re Not Attracted to Your Girlfriend: The Why & the Fixes

You’re not attracted to your girlfriend, but should you tell her about it? Here’s why your attraction faded and what to do about it. It may sound shallow, but physical attraction is high on the priority list in most romantic relationships. So, when you’re not attracted to your girlfriend physically, but still love her and want to be in a relationship, it can be what we call a real bitch. One Harvard University study researched the perception of women who wore makeup. The results showed that women who wore makeup were generally perceived as more trustworthy, beautiful, and more likable than women who didn’t. Whatever science says the facts remain: we like to be attracted to our mates. There’s a big difference between not being attracted to your girlfriend and actually finding her *unattractive*. When you start finding her ugly, that’s when you have a real problem. So, what do you do when you’re not attracted to your girlfriend? Here are all the tips and tricks, including whether or

Poly Relationship: How to Get Past the Jealousy of Sharing Love

Just because all parties agree to be in a poly relationship doesn’t mean jealousy doesn’t exist. Here’s how it still works regardless. Being in a poly relationship, contrary to popular belief, is actually a lot like being in a monogamous relationship. It’s just that instead of only two people being committed to each other, there are more people committed to making a single relationship work. There are a lot of people who definitely don’t want to be in a polygamous relationship. However, there are many who opt to live a life with multiple partners instead of just one. Many people even believe that humans aren’t meant to be monogamous and those people definitely have reason to believe that. Humans are designed to have more than one partner We’re not like swans. Human DNA tells us that we’re supposed to mate with different people. That’s why we find so many people attractive, and that’s why we get along with others so well. You wonder why some people just have too much trouble being m

Check Your Privilege: It’s Not Derogatory but Meant to Wake You Up

If someone tells you to check your privilege, don’t assume they say it derogatorily. If it is, then choose not to accept it if you are okay with you. When someone says “check your privilege” it almost feels as if they are saying “stop bitching you have more than you should.” If someone tells you to check your privilege, it isn’t always said to put you in your place or to make you feel some sort of guilt for things outside of your control. It is a phrase meant to make you aware of what you have going for you and not to always look on the lemon side of life. We all come into this world with a talent or advantage. Obviously, some advantages are more apparent than others. But, that doesn’t mean that anyone should feel guilty about what they have or who they are. It just means that you should look around to examine the things you received because of the way social constructs are set up. When most people are told to check their privilege, they take it as a personal assault on their charac

How to Smell Good and Attract Almost Anyone You Deeply Desire

Knowing how to smell good is essential if you’re looking to pick someone up. Here’s how to make sure you attract anyone you like through scent alone. You just can’t deny that smelling good is really important when you’re trying to meet someone new. If you walk into a date with body odor or other unpleasant aromas wafting off you with every step, your date won’t like you. That’s why you should always know how to smell good. It can mean the difference between an amazing date or a horrible one. Plus, you’re more likely to get a second date if you walk around smelling nice than if you smell awful. People just like those who smell pleasant. It makes them want to be around you more. But shouldn’t I let my natural pheromones come through? We’ve all heard about pheromones and their role in dating – and mating – but you can’t just get all sweaty and allow yourself to smell disgusting on a date. That’s not how pheromones work. You can’t consciously smell pheromones. They’re something you pi

14 Signs You’re the Rebound Guy She’s Using to Get Over Her Ex

You’re really into this girl, but you feel something isn’t quite right. She kisses and hugs you, but you’re not feeling the love. Are you the rebound guy? I’ve been the rebound girl a couple times. You think they’re into you, but there’s something missing when you’re around them. So, if your gut says something’s not right, follow your instinct. You don’t want to be the rebound guy. We’ve all been in relationships which broke our hearts and left us feeling like nothing’s going to happen in our lives from here on out. The good news is that it does get better. But right after a break-up, we enter a period of insecurity and sadness. So, what do people do? They jump into another relationship. I completely understand why. Who wants to feel heartbreak? Who wants to be alone? So, instead, they pick someone out of the crowd they think will be good for them. [Read: 15 rebound relationship signs to watch out for ] 14 ways to tell if you’re the rebound guy Of course, it’s an asshole move to m

12 Unique & Romantic Honeymoon Ideas You Won’t Get Anywhere Else

If you want to start your marriage off right, you’ll want more than your average honeymoon ideas. We have the fun, unique twists you need. Everyone deserves a honeymoon. It’s a time to relish in your newly wedded bliss on the getaway of your dreams. Not to mention the perfect opportunity to kick-start a fantastic sex life with the only person you’ll be with for the rest of your life. That being said, you need some unique honeymoon ideas so you don’t end up doing what everyone else is doing. If you just go off to some beach, you’ll be doing what everyone else is doing. Don’t you want your honeymoon to be extra special? Sure, it’ll be special because your spouse is yours only but it can be a bit more exciting if it’s something nobody else really does. How important is a honeymoon to the marriage? Truthfully, it’s probably not all that important in the grand scheme of things. However, having a great honeymoon can lead to a solid start to the marriage. If you go somewhere interesting a

How to Build Confidence: 11 Powerful Changes to Alter Your Life

If you struggle with your confidence, life can be especially hard to navigate. These 11 ways for how to build confidence changes your perspective. Everyone feels nervous or uncertain from time to time. It can be very difficult once you started feeling this way to get over it! Feeling confident and self-assured can be so helpful in many ways. Whether heading into a job interview or plucking up the courage to ask out that person you’ve had a crush on for ages, confidence plays a key part. Read on to learn how to build confidence and transform your life. A person with self-confidence also feels happier within themselves and comes across as more attractive. If you have confidence, you are more likely to be determined to reach your life goals, take risks, make brave decisions, and feel positivity about what’s to come. Sounds pretty good, right? [Read: How to gain confidence and change your life ] How to build confidence and never look back Even if you are terribly self-conscious and lac