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Sex Positions for Beginners: 7 Moves to Instantly Feel Like a Pro

If you’re a sex newbie, you may be in the dark on the best sex positions for beginners. Well, it’s time you learned, and I’m here to enlighten you. I wish someone was there to guide me when I lost my virginity. Someone to tell me the best sex positions for beginners and how it would feel the first time. For me, it was a traumatic experience. I was housesitting for a family member and my boyfriend came over. I was a virgin, and he wasn’t much more experienced than I was. All I remember was the pain and thinking why is sex such a big deal? It doesn’t even feel good. That was then. Of course, after that experience, you have other sexual experiences. You grow and learn what you like and don’t like. [Read: The dirty truth about losing your virginity no one told you ] The 7 sex positions for beginners that you need to know If you’re about to lose your virginity and you’re nervous, I get it. Trust me, your first time isn’t going to be a mind-blowing experience, you may fall asleep from bo

How to Control Your Emotions and Become the Pinnacle of Restraint

One thing most people should learn as they get older is how to control your emotions. But is it really that easy? Here’s what you should know. Many people will tell you that you can’t control your emotions, that they control you. That’s just not true. Sure, you can’t exactly dictate how you feel, but you can learn how to control your emotions and stop them from steering you in an unwanted direction. It’s not very easy. It takes a long time to figure this out, especially if you’re the type who has let your emotions take over for a very long time. Thankfully, it is possible. With enough work and effort, you can control your emotions and take over your own life. There are extensive benefits of being able to control yourself Your job, school, and even your relationships require that you don’t lose control. If you do, you can negatively impact all of those. One slip of the tongue dictated by your emotions could ruin your career and in turn, your life. But it’s not just about preventing

How to Get Over Him Fast: A Foolproof System to Feel Yourself Again

You’re too busy being fantastic to worry about being heartbroken. Learning how to get over him fast is the only logical solution. You’ve got a lot going on in your life, okay? You don’t need to waste your time and energy trying to get over this guy that clearly didn’t see how fantastic you are. Don’t give him that time: Learn how to get over him fast, and leave him in the dust. They say there are two certainties in life: death and taxes. But there’s one more— heartbreak. I hate to be the one to break the news to you, but heartbreak is an inevitable part of life. It never gets easier. It’s always going to hurt, guys. But maybe we can make the process a little bit smoother the next time it comes around. [Read: The 9 step guide to mending your heart ] My first heartbreak and learning how to get over him Okay, so picture this. It’s 2010, and I’m standing in my best friend’s bedroom while we do each other’s hair and makeup. We’re getting ready for the night of our lives. At least the n

15 Signs You Need a Wingwoman and How to Choose the Best One

Even girls need a wingwoman sometimes. If you’re striking out when it comes to picking up men, maybe you need a little more help than you thought. Having someone assist you in picking up a date isn’t just for men. Although the term has been coined “wingman,” it’s time for us ladies to take it back and make it our own. That being said, you may be in desperate need of a wingwoman and not even realize it. It’s not easy to approach guys at the bar or even flutter your lashes to get them to come talk to you. It’s even harder when you’re alone and don’t have someone to help you out or point out guys who seem to be checking you out. For that reason, having a woman tag along to help you out can mean the difference between a lonely Friday night or one spent on a hot date with a great guy. [Read: 40 fun pick-up lines to use on men to make him yours ] What does a wingwoman do? You probably have this idea of a wingman in your mind as someone who makes up stories and lies about a guy so he can

The Lithromantic: What It Really Means & 12 Signs You May Be One

Do you find yourself crushing on people, but as soon as they reciprocate those feelings you feel uncomfortable? You might be lithromantic. As with any romantic orientation, somebody who identifies as a lithromantic may identify however they see fit in terms of their sexual orientation. Sexuality is a wide and diverse spectrum. We no longer live under the terms “heterosexual” and “homosexual.” We separate our romantic lives and definitions from our sexual lives and definitions. The world has opened up and we identify ourselves however we see fit, and all I have to say is: Finally . The real meaning of lithromantic and what makes you one Lithromantic, also known as akoiromantic and apromantic, refers to a person who feels romantic love but does not have any desire for those feelings to be reciprocated. If you are lithromantic, you may or may not be comfortable with romantic relationships. You may or may not be comfortable with platonic love. Regardless, this person does not see the n

How to Have Sex with Your Ex: 13 Ways Even Though You Shouldn’t

You told everyone it’s over, but, deep down, you know it’s not. Well, there’s a right and wrong way when it comes to knowing how to have sex with your ex. Breakups suck. When the best sex of your life was with your ex, it sucks even more. Why? Well, if you haven’t had sex since, or even if you have, you know it was incomparable to what you had. This is why it’s so hard to cut ties. Do you wonder sometimes how to have sex with your ex because of the amazing sex? Okay, of course, you had feelings towards them but attach that to amazing sex, and it’s ten times harder to let go. You probably haven’t admitted to your friends that you’re sleeping with your ex again because deep down you know it’s a bad idea, but you can’t help it. [Read: 10 circumstances where breakup sex works ] How to have sex with your ex Trust me, we all have been there. I’m not going to judge you for this because it’s pointless. We’ve all felt those feelings and some of us have gone back to our ex while others haven

How to Introduce Yourself: The Art of Making a Great Impression

It is important to know how to introduce yourself and make a good first impression, because sometimes it is the only one you get. Do you have a job interview coming up? Maybe a date with somebody new? Or perhaps you are meeting a business professional for coffee and really want to make a great first impression. Regardless of the reason you search for tips, you have come to the right place. Learning how to introduce yourself is a skill that you take with you everywhere you go in life. We all need to know how to introduce ourselves. It is one of the most important things we do as human beings. [Read: 10 reasons you could be turning people off ] How to introduce yourself and leaving a  perfect impression Essentially, you are a product of your life experiences and upbringing. You are valuable to many people and companies, and you need to communicate just how valuable you really are. This is done through introducing yourself to people, and I don’t mean just saying “Hello, my name is Jo

How to Know You’re in Love: 13 Science Backed Ways to Know for Sure

Wondering how to know you’re in love, eh? You’re feeling the butterflies in your stomach. But is that love? Well, science says yes. If I went with my definition of love, I would have been in love with almost every guy that walked past me. Of course, I later found out that that feeling wasn’t love, it was me feeling horny. Weird how we get those two things mixed up, right? Lust and love, though they feel similar, they’re completely different things. But, here’s the thing, learning how to know you’re in love or lust is an important distinction. It’s not like we have someone sitting in our brain directing us, letting us know what each of our feelings mean. If anything, we learn from trial and error which usually ends up with us getting hurt. [Read:  What is real love, and 15 special ways it sets itself apart ] How to know you’re in love So, maybe you’ve dated this one person for a while. You think you may be in love with them. But how do you actually know that you’re falling in love

What Is A MILF? The Surprising Truths & Thoughts Behind Its Meaning

‘MILF’ is code for Mother I’d Like To Fuck. But there’s really much, much more to it. Here’s a unique take on what is a MILF exactly. If you’re a dude you’ve probably used this term more times than you care to admit. Walking down the street with your boy, you see an unusually attractive older lady and you’re like, ‘Bro, check out that MILF.’ But if you’re wondering, what is a MILF, it’s time to educate yourself. What is a MILF? It’s just one of those words we like to say. It rolls off the tongue like sweet honey… Sometimes we say it for humor. Other times the word MILF is just… definitive. The truth. There’s even a male equivalent—‘DILF’, which is code for Dad I’d Like To Fuck. Primarily, being a MILF/DILF means you’re older but still look remarkably attractive. MILF is sort of similar to the term cougar, which is a woman who is independent, older, and likes her meat younger. But MILF/DILF are different in that those terms suggest you have parenting responsibilities. Which could

14 Signs a Woman Is Attracted to You Sexually & How to Read Them

You may be bummed out, thinking no woman is interested but what if you’re just not paying attention to the signs a woman is attracted to you sexually? There probably have been hundreds of time where you saw an attractive girl at school, the club, or on the street and though you could have approached her, you got cold feet. You thought she wouldn’t be into you or she’d reject you before you even said hi. But did you notice that she stared at you? Did you notice the small smile she gave when you walked by? You probably didn’t think that those were signs a woman is attracted to you sexually, but they were. [Read: How to tell if there’s no chemistry and you need to move on ] How to read the signs a woman is attracted to you sexually See? See how the smallest sign matters? Women are more likely to be low key and subtle when showing signs of interest compared to men. Men usually approach a woman rather than the other way around. So, she lets out subtle signs in order to show you it’s okay

The Art of Texting Cute: All the Cute Things to Text Your Boyfriend

Not sure how to be romantic via text? Don’t fret, we’ve found all the cute things to text your boyfriend that will showcase your romantic side. Okay, let me be the first person to say, “I get it.” Being romantic with your partner is a tricky field to navigate, especially in a new relationship. Not to mention finding cute things to text your boyfriend. We often feel awkward expressing our feelings, and we don’t want to come across as cliché or clingy. So, we need to find the perfect combination of sweet and original. Don’t quote The Notebook , or other love stories overplayed and over-quoted. Be original. Trust me, it means SO much more when it comes from the heart. Some of us perform better in person, face-to-face, while others prefer the text method. [Read:  25 tips to make your boyfriend happy every day ] Cute things to text your boyfriend that will leave him saying “aww” Personally, I can get my thoughts across much more clearly when I can write it out. I do not come across as s

How to Tell If You Love Someone: Will You Actually Just Know?

Knowing how to tell if you love someone can be daunting. Some say when you know you know, but is that true? These signs will help you know. Love is different for everyone. Some people say they knew at first sight. Some after their first fight, and for others it happens much later. So, how to tell if you love someone? You may think, you should just know, but it isn’t always that simple. Whether you’ve been in love before or not, figuring out how to tell if you love someone can be more complicated than you think. [Read: 15 signs you’ve graduated to true love ] Why do you want to know how to tell if you love someone? Are you in a relationship, dating, pining after someone from afar? If you have yet to meet, this may be the wrong feature for you. You might want to look into how to approach your crush. [Read: 25 little ways to draw anyone to you and make them like you ] But if you are in a relationship and feel unsure about your feelings, this feature should help clear things up. Are