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How to Friendzone a Girl like a Gentleman and Not Break Her Heart

Learning how to friendzone a girl is an important skill to learn, as it will happen many times in your life. But leave her with her dignity. If you have yet to experience this scenario, I’ll just say it—I’m surprised! I swear I’ve been friendzoned a handful of times, and I friendzoned tons of friends as well. It’s not an easy thing to do and an even harder thing to have done to you. Knowing what it feels like to be friendzoned, will surely make you better at doing the friendzoning. And learning how to friendzone a girl will help you out in life. How it feels to be friendzoned Okay, well to be frank, it sucks. I always felt foolish for believing that there was something more between us. And I have a bad habit of believing things are better off than they really are. I always think I crushed job interviews and the job is definitely mine, or I believe that the people I’m interested in must  be interested in me as well. Those things don’t just happen. It would be amazing if that was re

How to Squirt during Sex: A Complete Guide for Curious First-Timers

Learning how to squirt during sex sometimes feels like the proverbial unicorn. But it can happen, and I have a few tips for you to help your girl squirt. Squirting: it’s wet, hot, messy, and addictive. Those women who are fortunate to have achieved this kind of pleasure would sing you the same praise. But for the other men and women who tried and failed to reach such orgasmic pleasure are often curious about how to squirt during sex and make the metaphorical floodgates open or even suspicious whether you can make it happen at all. Due to its complicated nature, squirting has been a subject of so much discussion making it some sort of a mythical creature in the realm of female orgasms. However, the fact that some women have been there and back to tell us their experience proves that it is achievable. The only question that remains is how does one achieve it? Let’s take a look. Squirting orgasms: Can it really happen? Women are the only creatures gifted with the ability to experience

Staying Friends After a Breakup: Can You Actually Make It Work?

If you break up on good or mutual terms, wanting to remain close makes sense. But is staying friends after a breakup really a good idea? Breakups suck, especially when you still care about your ex. You do not want to part ways forever because you get along and are connected. But is staying friends after a breakup a good idea? It depends. Were you friends before you started dating? You might be wondering why this matters? But if you were not friends before you started dating you may have nothing to grasp. Cutting out the romantic feelings and staying in each other’s lives will be more difficult if you didn’t have a basis of friendship at the beginning. It will be easier to find common ground to base a friendship on without romantic feelings if you had that before. [Read: Here is why staying friends with your ex just doesn’t work ] Do you have mutual friends? It may be easier to reconnect as friends if you have a mutual friend group. This way you can get into a routine of seeing t

12 Signs He Wants to Cheat with You: What Do You Want to Do Now?

You know he has a girlfriend, but there’s something about him that makes you question his feelings for you. Maybe these signs he wants to cheat with you? Having a girlfriend doesn’t mean he’s faithful. Are you unsure of his motive or what his behavior means? Maybe he just wants to be friends. So, it’s time you stopped questioning yourself and understood the signs he wants to cheat with you or not. Once you figure it out, then it’s your choice as to what you’re going to do about it. One thing I can say though is that I wouldn’t like to be his girlfriend. [Read:  10 sneaky giveaways of a potential cheater ] Signs he wants to cheat with you I was at the club once when this good-looking guy approached me. He was talking to me, flirting with me, but never made a move. I was confused, I thought he was into me. Why wouldn’t he ask me for my number? As the night progressed he would ask me certain questions about relationships and what I thought about men with girlfriends. At the time, I n

Friendly vs Flirty: 12 Subtle Hints to Stop Reading the Wrong Signs

We all get caught up in the issue of friendly vs flirty from time to time. It is important to understand the difference and avoid any embarrassment. Some of us are just nice individuals, okay? Just because I’m being friendly doesn’t mean I’m interested, dude. Back the heck off. I’ve struggled with this issue every day of my dang life. I’m honestly just a nice person. I like to throw compliments around like confetti but that doesn’t mean I’m being flirty. Friendly vs flirty, time to learn the dang difference. Can anybody relate? Seriously, thank goodness I’m no longer in the dating scene, because this always killed me. It also didn’t help that I have literally no idea how to flirt, so when I was actually  flirting with someone, it was completely missed. I don’t know how I ever landed my dude. It definitely wasn’t through my flirting skills. To break it down for you, flirting happens when your intentions are to date or have a sexual relationship with somebody. If you are just being fr

Meaning of Safe Words & How to Use Them When You’re Playing Rough

You know people use safe words but haven’t tried it yourself. Why do you even need a safe word? We’re going to share the meaning of safe words. If you’re like me when I was younger, then you may not completely understand the meaning of safe words or how to use it. That’s okay because that’s why I’m here. Up until a couple of years ago, I never used a safe word. I didn’t actually know they existed. In my head, I thought that when you said “stop” it meant to stop. Or when you push someone off of you and say “ouch” that’s a decent sign that what just happened caused you negative pain. I was so vanilla back then. I knew very little about the BDSM community and that’s actually where the whole concept of a safe word originated. [Read:  15 ways to have the sexiest rough sex ever ] The meaning of safe words A safe word is a word that you and your partner choose pre-sex, that either partner can use when they feel that the experience is becoming too much. The minute you say the safe word, al

How to End a Friends with Benefits Situation and Remain Friends

It is never as simple as it sounds. But this is how to end a friends with benefits situation on good terms. It’s possible to still be friends. Friends with benefits sounds like this simple no strings attached agreement. You can have fun and laugh and talk, and, of course, have sex without the drama of a relationship. But more often than not, things have a way of leading you toward complications. But if you know how to end a friends with benefits situation right, you can end it the right way and keep your friend too. In a friends with benefits situation, not only are feelings likely to erupt, but when they only come from one side it becomes more complicated than you signed up for. Not to mention if you start liking someone else. [Read: How does being friends with benefits really work out? ] How do you end a friends with benefits situation? You started for complication free sex. But now that it has come to the end, it seems like it wasn’t so worth it. It doesn’t have to feel that wa

15 Signs He’s Getting Attached and is Ready for a Real Commitment

It’s often hard to tell when a guy is all in. Knowing the signs he’s getting attached can help you figure out if he’s ready to commit to you. Men aren’t always great at articulating when they’re fully ready to commit to you. In all honesty, it can often be up to you to figure out the signs he’s getting attached. Once you can tell, not only does it make you feel more secure, but it can help you solidify your relationship status. And let’s be real: some guys can be a little sensitive when it comes to defining your relationship status a little too early. If they’re not quite attached yet, it might scare them off and intimidate them if you’re ready and they’re not there yet. Men have their own way of showing just how much they want to commit It’s like a different language, in a sense. Guys have unique ways of showing you they want to commit and that they’re even attached. Sure, some men are brazened enough to just tell you, but that’s not really the norm. For that reason, being able t

Midlife Crisis for Women: 13 Ways That Set Them Apart from a Man

No one said life was easy. Sometimes, as women, there are moments where we think, “Is this really my life?” But maybe you’re just in a midlife crisis for women. If you think you’re experiencing a midlife crisis for women, don’t worry. In fact, if you use this crisis to your advantage, you can motivate yourself to accomplish the things that you wanted to but didn’t have the chance to or were too scared to. Maybe you wanted to become an actress but were scared to audition or you didn’t get into a program that you wanted. And now, you feel incomplete, which is completely normal. Sure, you may be a bit older and think that it’s too late, that your life is over. Well, first of all, it’s never too late, and your life doesn’t end until you allow it to. [Read: It’s time to broaden your horizon’s and live life to the fullest ] Midlife crisis for women – How to know if you’re actually having one You know, I’ve had a couple mental and emotional meltdowns and I’m not even thirty yet. So, trust

Wedding Night Sex: How to Make It an Unforgettable Experience

Wedding night sex may be wildly romantic, or you may spend it hovering over a toilet bowl. Here’s what to expect from wedding night sex. Your wedding night sex is a ritual dance that has so much hype and anticipation surrounding it, so it’s hard to know if you’re doing it right. The truth is that wedding night sex doesn’t always turn out the way you thought it would, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t going to be special. So what is the norm when it comes to wedding night sex? In a survey of 1,000 couples, 52% said they didn’t even bother having sex on their wedding night . The truth is, your wedding night is going to be exactly what you make of it. It could be super romantic, or you could spend it praising the porcelain god because you partied too much. If you want steamy romantic sex with your newly beloved, then you have to plan for it. That means no getting wasted, no fighting, and no staying up until all hours of the morning just to accomplish the deed. You don’t have to make wedd

60 Funny Icebreaker Questions to Spark a Conversation with Anyone

Meeting new people can be stressful. I’ll make it a little bit easier for you with these funny icebreaker questions sure to help. Today I am going to share some fun questions with you, because I think we can all make use of funny icebreaker questions, since we are ALWAYS meeting new people. And meeting new people can be hard, can’t it? Personally, I adore getting to know new people. I sort of have a problem with boundaries, honestly. I just want to know everything and anything about everybody. When new people start at work, I bombard them with a ton of questions because I just want to know everything about them as soon as possible. I know, I know, I’m the absolute worst. But seriously, I’ve always been this way. In high school, I would meet new people, and I had an arm’s length worth of questions I wanted to ask them, and some of them were really quite fun! [Read: Are you a shy extrovert? All the signs pointing to your dichotomy ] 60 funny icebreaker questions I hope you’re ready

Did You Blow His Mind? 13 Must-Know Signs the Sex Was Good for Him

The sex was mind-blowing for you, but are you lying next to him wondering about the signs the sex was good for him? Well, here’s how you know it was. You’re not the only one who wonders about the signs the sex was good for him too. I mean, how can you not wonder about it? Of course, it crosses your mind, sometimes more often than others. I once had a guy dead silent during sex. I could hear footsteps on the street, and I live in an apartment building, so, when I say it was quiet, it was quiet. Now, how do I assume he enjoyed himself when he didn’t even make a sound? Like so many other women out there, this is something easily interpreted into, “well, this was shit,” sex. [Read: 10 clear signs he’s not enjoying what you’re doing while having sex ] The signs the sex was good for him Maybe you really like this guy, or you worry about your partner leaving you for someone else because they don’t think the sex is good. These thoughts have come to all of us. Listen, you don’t need to wor